Where are you even supposed to meet girls?
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freestylemonster
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I met a girl at a pool once, problem is I couldn't get her number because I had nowhere to write it down and didn't have my phone...But you can meet girls anywhere that's public, really...Just keep your eyes peeled!
Dave_McFadden
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Does that mean you're a math major? Holy s***, your work is cut out for you.
Now you're just making excuses. There are online dating sites for every age group. At least, every 18+ age group. Just don't mention the math thing in the beginning....
You're darn right I don't believe this. Do girls do that sort of thing in Florida??????????? Maybe I should move...
Ventrilotwo said:
Does that mean you're a math major? Holy s***, your work is cut out for you.
Ventrilotwo said:
Now you're just making excuses. There are online dating sites for every age group. At least, every 18+ age group. Just don't mention the math thing in the beginning....
TAMPA-BAY said:
You're darn right I don't believe this. Do girls do that sort of thing in Florida??????????? Maybe I should move...
ventriloone
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what's wrong with being a math major?
Broken-Soul
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BashfulDoll said:
I really agree with this...I think online dating has its risks...But so do every type of relationship.I think when you talk to someone online... because its not face to face.. you can be so much open with each other.I actualy think you can get to know people better online if you take your time
Sure people can come across completley different online... but thats maybe after a while you move from online chatting to on the phone and stuff.
DrunkPanda
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you won't be able to get a job afterwards unless you want to be a math teacher which i doubt you do if you are on this forum...
ventriloone
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i plan on becoming a mathematician.
faithnomore
Banned
its impossible for me right now. I just dont believe in myself enough to be able to get a girl.
Dave_McFadden
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ventriloone said:
What is it, exactly, that mathematicians do anymore? Are there actually jobs for "mathematicians"?
ventriloone said:
The next time you're out in a social situation, walk up to as many girls as possible and say "I can take square roots in my head" and see how many favorable responses you get.
Scifi_Tomboy
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Pyrophosphate said:
If a girl likes you she will take the next step. I'm 46 & I will be 21 years married next year. I loved my husband (not beautiful) because he was so funny & intelligent, he still is, I love him so much - be funny, intelligent, kind & thoughtful, every woman in the world will love you - choose one tho' & stick with her.
Kind regards.
jiujitsu
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DrunkPanda said:
Omg, so funny. Can't stop laughing. Why are you all trying to destroy his mathematician dreams? Still funny.
I've joined an online dating site for a couple months now. Nothing. Maybe it's just that Match.com sucks. It's more likely that I truthfully described myself which thoroughly blows me out of the water. Also, I'm far too picky and judgmental. None of the matches are... strange enough for me I guess. They are all so normal or at least want to be normal people. I want to find a girl as retarded as I am so I can relate and not feel like a little child. Anyway, online dating, for me, is crap so far.
So, social anxiety... Having the social experience of a 10 year old probably doesn't help. I feel like it's far too late for me to catch up. Knowing some people my age are married and are dads by now makes it worse.
Anyway, I'm totally stoked I found this forum. You're all so funny to me, though I doubt you intend to be. You are like me in at least one way, so I just laugh at all these things you say that I can relate to. Why can't I meet people like you in real life? Oh, right... 8)
stardog
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jiujitsu said:
Definitely can relate to the experience thing. I feel like I'd have to go out with a girl at least a few years younger to even have a chance.
I browsed through plentyoffish.com, damn I just find it depressing. All I see is confident, social girls, mostly at uni, with great lives ahead of them, they know what they want out of life and want a strong partner who does also. Nothing wrong with that. To find a reasonably attractive girl w/less social experience than me would be the needle in the haystack...
jiujitsu
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I dropped the whole 'attractive girl' thing a while ago. Something's gotta give. Better chances that way. Personality is way more important for someone like me.
When you're relatively normal and you date relatively normal people everyone ends up being relatively the same, so you have to be picky about superficial character traits. Nothing's ever good enough blah blah *drinks beer*
When you're relatively normal and you date relatively normal people everyone ends up being relatively the same, so you have to be picky about superficial character traits. Nothing's ever good enough blah blah *drinks beer*
ventriloone
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i unfortunately want both
ventriloone
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well to be fair perfect is relative. I mean a girl with intelligence is probably rated no higher by 95% of guys than a stupid one. And personality is all preference... so it comes down to looks, yea. well personally i like the innocent look so much more than the skank look but i happen to know most disagree.
Ubersonic
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Riiya said:
Well girls have it easier when it comes to getting attention from guys. If you can make yourselves at least somewhat attractive, guys will notice. You don't have to be a super model or anything, just be healthy looking. A man attracting a female is more difficult. Every women has a different list of standards men must meet. It sucks because when we just "be ourselves" and it doesn't work we are screwed. I think that's why you see more guys making these types of threads than girls.
coriander1992
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Ubersonic said:
Or they prefer not to sit around moaning about things?
tuxtux
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ventriloone said:
I'm a girl (math minor, CS major, and we do have female math majors NOT planning on being teachers - I don't want to hear "no girls in the field" ever again!) who admires you for this single reason.
Math == great.
Go for being a mathematician. I hope to read your papers someday!Well, there are maybe no girls in your classes, but who forbids you to meet people outside your classes? Like in university activities, sports, political groups? Since you are a math major, maybe you would like to join a chess club or so... I'd join if I was at your U. Where in the world are you?
Also, mhhh... I don't know, this whole "I want to find the girl/guy/rhinoceros of my dreams, where should I start looking" thing sounds a bit as if you wanted to force things. You know, we girls do notice if guys just see us as potential relationship material. Do you have a group of friends? Try to go out and meet people, without the specification "I want to meet girls", with your only goal being to have a good time and maybe make friends with nice people. At some point, you will automatically be meeting girls as well, and maybe one of them is the one, who knows? I mean you don't have to see girls as people you could possibly hook up with or that could let you down or so - you can be friends (or acquaintances) with girls, and maybe go about dating from that. All my friends are guys. 98% of the people I talk to are guys. But when I moved here I didn't go about it like "where can I meet guys?" but I set out to meet people to hang out with and chat, assuming that the relationship thing would somehow arise from that. (It did.)