and what if we never really were - we just suffered at the hands of bullies or immature teenagers (lets face it a lot of kids get picked on for something, it doesn't mean everyone thinks like that about them).
What if we jumped to conclusions that people are judging us when really we weren't other than a few people and lets face it not everyone can like us, some people are cruel and nasty, some people are hurtful, some people are really shallow, etc.
What is to say the negative judgements are still relevant or applicable - we change so much from our childhood and teenage years to how we are when we're an adult.
What is to say that adults think like immature, insensitive teenagers or like an abusive family member (whoever was putting you down)?
What is to say we are actually being judged negatively at all but we're livingour lives believing we are from some past negative experiences and judgements? Does it mean that if anyone says something negative about us that it is fact and how everyone thinks? If I was to find fault in someone today and told them, does that make it fact?
No one is perfect, we all have weaknesses, imperfections, flaws. Look around and who is perfect looking, perfect intelligence, perfect personality, etc? No one at all. Yet people are not judging those people negatively for their imperfections/weaknesses,etc.
Maybe we got it wrong and we aren't being judged like we think? Afterall it doesn't seem like others are ever getting judged negatively.
What if we jumped to conclusions that people are judging us when really we weren't other than a few people and lets face it not everyone can like us, some people are cruel and nasty, some people are hurtful, some people are really shallow, etc.
What is to say the negative judgements are still relevant or applicable - we change so much from our childhood and teenage years to how we are when we're an adult.
What is to say that adults think like immature, insensitive teenagers or like an abusive family member (whoever was putting you down)?
What is to say we are actually being judged negatively at all but we're livingour lives believing we are from some past negative experiences and judgements? Does it mean that if anyone says something negative about us that it is fact and how everyone thinks? If I was to find fault in someone today and told them, does that make it fact?
No one is perfect, we all have weaknesses, imperfections, flaws. Look around and who is perfect looking, perfect intelligence, perfect personality, etc? No one at all. Yet people are not judging those people negatively for their imperfections/weaknesses,etc.
Maybe we got it wrong and we aren't being judged like we think? Afterall it doesn't seem like others are ever getting judged negatively.