What do you do when you have no one?

Maddy6voa

New member
I'm new to this site and looking for some advise on who I can talk to about life issues. I have no friends and no real family, so I can't talk to anyone. I just broke off my long time friendship (who was my only friend) because he wasn't dependable anymore. I can't talk to my boyfriend because he has his own issues to deal with. I have an aunt that's like a mother to me that's dying and no other family left. I had lost my job and still haven't found a new one yet. I don't drive or have a car, so that doesn't make matters any better. Can't see a doctor because I have no insurance & the state can't help me.
So with all this going on who in the world can I talk to? I know my boyfriend says he loves me and he cares, but sometimes I don't see it. He's mad at me because our sex live isn't great right now. The last 3 times I offered something sexual just for him...he reject me and than used porn later. He rarely ever offers sex just for me. He says that his rejecting me has nothing to do with me, but I think somethings going on. Plus he makes food for himself and doesn't even ask if I'd like anything...and leaves all his dirty dishes for me to clean.
Right now I'm feeling like I'm only here to give my half of the rent, cook and clean. My life feels like I'm being a complete burden on society. I have no purpose or meaning to my life what so ever!!!
 

Kiwong

Well-known member
Are there any counselling services near where you are. I often use counsellors at times of crisis.
 

starone

Member
Hi, I'm new too. I have no friends at all either, but I do have a wonderful boyfriend and a daughter, so when I get to the point where I feel absolutely hopeless, and just see no reason to live I think about my daughter and how she would feel if I left her and that is my overall motivation and reason to go on. I think you need to dig deep and find that one thing that will pick you up when you are all the way down and out, wether it's religon or just hope. Try Looking for support groups in your area as well
 

Maddy6voa

New member
Thanks Kiwong & Starone for the advice, I'll have to see if there are any counselors around my area that are free or at least cheap.
 
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