What did the phobia deprive yourselves, what you regret, of?

[Marvolo]

Hi,

I wonder about the statement above. [edited]

 

[jayo]

Yes, of course all of the time.

So many people who should have been in my life or could have been in my life and haven't been because of this condition.

Like tonight - shouldn't we all be on the town holding court among a group of people enjoying ourselves?

 

[Marvolo]

(...)Like tonight - shouldn't we all be on the town holding court among a group of people enjoying ourselves?

You know, I haven't even thought about it... I'm so "over-filled" with the phobia that meant by you situation I find somewhat unreal and difficult to imagine...

 

[qwerty77]

Re: What did the phobia deprive yourselves, what you regret,

Hi,

I wonder about the statement above. Do you feel you've lost some experiences or valuable acquintancenesses? I mean for example such a thing: you've met accidentally some person which was quite kind and you think it'd be quite good to go that on, but you were so shy/anxious that you've lost any contact and maybe will can meet no more... Do you get it?

Or you've some person who'd appealed you, you know, as your classmate, but you also were so anxious/shy that nothing has came of it... and we are now totally in other schools. Do you get it?
I've seen her, by accident, on the street today... She didn't saw me (fortunately, rather...:/); I'd felt strange - so nicely and sadly simultaneously. Any of you understands?...

Eh, maybe those depressive moods haven't left me totally yet...

to się nazywa uzalanie sie nad soba. marwolo tobie potrzebny mocny kop w tylek, a laska sie nie martw, jeszcze trafisz na swoja. cheers.

 

[spct]

i dunno, i don't feel too much regret because most the things i do have a certain amount of logic behind them, even if the logic is often tied up with social anxiety, & i can still remember how i felt when i made my decisions

it also helps that i'm fairly introverted so don't need/want to be around people all that much

right now, i can't think of too many things that i deeply regret, though a lot of that is to do with the fact i'm still relatively young (22)

there are certain things i want to do/achieve in the future which i'm sure i'll find extremely arduous, but will no doubt regret it if i don't exert myself when the time comes, whenever that may be

 

[Marvolo]

Re: What did the phobia deprive yourselves, what you regret,

to się nazywa uzalanie sie nad soba. marwolo tobie potrzebny mocny kop w tylek, a laska sie nie martw, jeszcze trafisz na swoja. cheers.

Hm, właściwie to moja jakże ciekawa egzystencja jest jednym wielkim kopem w tyłek, no może z pewnymi przerwami... :lol: :?

Am I complaining? Maybe yes, I am. Probably everybody need to complain sometimes, do you not? But thanks for the consolation...

Also cheers for you!

(Napisałem to po angielsku, aby inni też mogli to zrozumieć i ewentualnie skomentować, jakby z jakichkolwiek powodów zechcieli to zrobić).

 

[qwerty77]

Re: What did the phobia deprive yourselves, what you regret,

Hm, właściwie to moja jakże ciekawa egzystencja jest jednym wielkim kopem w tyłek, no może z pewnymi przerwami... :lol: :?

zgadzam sie, moja w sumie tez, ale co tam.

Am I complaining? Maybe yes, I am. Probably everybody need to complain sometimes, do you not? But thanks for the consolation...

bardzo prosze. ja bardzo rzadko uzalam sie nad soba

(Napisałem to po angielsku, aby inni też mogli to zrozumieć i ewentualnie skomentować, jakby z jakichkolwiek powodów zechcieli to zrobić).

tylko winny sie tlumaczy.

 

[Person_Man]

Yeah, I feel that way all the time. I meet someone for the first time, then the next time I see them I get all nervous and whatever and don't say anything or even really nod. It sucks a loootttt. I know I should just do it, but I always just get overcome by fear and then I don't even do anything. I dunno, it just sucks a lot. I am going to do group therapy this summer and maybe that will help me. I just need to condition this fear out of myself. We all do.

 

[Marvolo]

Re: What did the phobia deprive yourselves, what you regret,

bardzo prosze. ja bardzo rzadko uzalam sie nad soba (...) tylko winny sie tlumaczy.

No widzisz. Najwyraźniej seroxat nadal działa. Pewnie łykasz go sobie jeszcze od czasu do czasu, nie zaprzeczysz!

A ten twój ostatni komentarz jest naprawdę tak dowcipny i błyskotliwy, że nie wiem. I niby czego miałbym być według ciebie winny? :?:

Pozdrawiam!

 

[Marvolo]

I dunno, it just sucks a lot. I am going to do group therapy this summer and maybe that will help me. I just need to condition this fear out of myself. We all do.

I agree. So, good luck with that therapy! :wink:
Cheers