Weird

[NightTimeForever]

So, I joined this dating site a few days ago, and got an email from this girl yesterday (it was 12 something am when it got into my inbox). It was in my filtered area, so I thought it was spam. But then she referenced the dating site I was on and said she had paid for a full membership to contact me.

I emailed her back shortly after but haven't received anything back from her yet. This probably seems really stupid, but what should I do? Just dismiss it? Even though she went into detail, such as she thought she had seen my around, I only live five miles from her, etc. I'm really confused, it seemed genuine, but now I am doubting that.

 

[NightTimeForever]

Hmm...so I guess not many people on here have dealt with this kind of thing, then? Oh well...

 

[Psychedelicious]

Maybe you shouldn't assume the worst so fast. How long has it been since you send your reply? Just wait a few days and if nothing happens send another reply to her.

 

[NightTimeForever]

Well, that situation has been resolved. But I emailed someone else that I sort of liked several days go, her profile said she came on just yesterday viewed my profile, and she didn't respond. I take it that is a bad thing? Haha. Maybe my message was too short (just asked if she wanted to chat). Or maybe she just didn't like my prof *shrugs*

Anyway, I'm just going to use this thread as sort of "blog" for my online dating experiences.

 

[Infected_Malignity]

Maybe you shouldn't assume the worst so fast. How long has it been since you send your reply? Just wait a few days and if nothing happens send another reply to her.

hmm... no. sounds like spam, nothing more.

 

[NightTimeForever]

Yeah it was spam, I just don't know how she got my email so fast (just created it when joining the site), and she then referenced that same site I was on. Which was strange, but I've since forgotten about that.