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This is a weird thing that I do, and I wonder if anyone else in the world experiences it. Basically, when I'm feeling nervous in a social situation, certain loud sounds can trigger a HUGE shot of nervous feeling.
For example, when I'm getting a haircut and the clipper buzzes close to my ear, or at a movie when loud sounds are playing. What happens is my head trembles, actually vibrates, and I instantly start fidgeting because I can't contain the nervousness.
Now the last time it was happening I tried something that seemed to help. I was sitting in a chair with a book in a bookstore, and somewhat nervous becuase I was sitting quite close to a girl. And right nearby, there was this door that would rub on the floor and make a huge SNOOORK sound when someone opened it, which triggered my odd reaction.
So after that happening many times, I started to imagine myself completely flipping out, jumping out of the chair the next time it would happen. Then wouldn't you know it, the reaction lessened each time after I started imagining that. Then finally, I imagined being completely calm and not reacting at all, and after that it went away completely!
But I have yet to see if this technique will help in other situations.
For example, when I'm getting a haircut and the clipper buzzes close to my ear, or at a movie when loud sounds are playing. What happens is my head trembles, actually vibrates, and I instantly start fidgeting because I can't contain the nervousness.
Now the last time it was happening I tried something that seemed to help. I was sitting in a chair with a book in a bookstore, and somewhat nervous becuase I was sitting quite close to a girl. And right nearby, there was this door that would rub on the floor and make a huge SNOOORK sound when someone opened it, which triggered my odd reaction.
So after that happening many times, I started to imagine myself completely flipping out, jumping out of the chair the next time it would happen. Then wouldn't you know it, the reaction lessened each time after I started imagining that. Then finally, I imagined being completely calm and not reacting at all, and after that it went away completely!
But I have yet to see if this technique will help in other situations.