Virginity
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jayfan
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i dont have my v-card , im 23 but ive also had a escort in tj.(the escort wasnt my first) id say if you really wanna do it ,go for it , i dont see how it can be that bad. it might help your confidence out that you finally got over it but just know that you are going to fien for it after. i mean straight crack status. i dont know , you cant really miss what you havent had.rko74 said:Maybe some of you can relate dont know lol but im still a 32 yr old virgin.My friend says you should get an escort, would you wait for the right person or pay for an escort? haha sorry if this is too much information.
itsnotjustme
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Not saying you shouldn't do it but just know that if you do get an escort when you do find the right person you're gonna have to tell her about it. Then again it may give you more confidence if it's something you're self-conscience about.
StealThis
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rko74 said:Maybe some of you can relate dont know lol but im still a 32 yr old virgin.My friend says you should get an escort, would you wait for the right person or pay for an escort? haha sorry if this is too much information.
I think you are better off trying to sleep with a less than attractive woman for free.
Chilling__Echo
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i don't see anything wrong with waiting or getting an escort. i'm sure alot of guys do that b/c i KNOW you are not the only 32 yr old with your v-card.
i can see the pro like someone else said before, it takes the pressure off the chick you really like to perform. might i add that chicks are SO much less judgemental and demanding than it might seem (or at least i am). so even if you waited for the right person, you have nothing to worry about.
i can see the pro like someone else said before, it takes the pressure off the chick you really like to perform. might i add that chicks are SO much less judgemental and demanding than it might seem (or at least i am). so even if you waited for the right person, you have nothing to worry about.
iamantisocial
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go for it. get an escort if youre so damn excited about losing virginity.
Been there. Done that. Its just the same feeling as masturbation. Just masturbate with your eyes closed while sniffing a woman's perfume... thats basically (almost) how it feels like.
Seen an escort at least 10x... until to a point where I'm just pfft... losing virginity is just overrated. I dont care. meh...
Been there. Done that. Its just the same feeling as masturbation. Just masturbate with your eyes closed while sniffing a woman's perfume... thats basically (almost) how it feels like.
Seen an escort at least 10x... until to a point where I'm just pfft... losing virginity is just overrated. I dont care. meh...
Chilling__Echo
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i have to admit, sex IS overrated. but it doesn't seem that way when you've never had it. i remember what it was like having not experienced it
Septor
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iamantisocial said:
That may be but it's one of those thing that you have to decide for your self and anything seem better when you never did it before because there the unknown factor.
As for getting a escort if you think it will help you gain some confidence go for it.It might help you out in the long run.Although I probably wouldn't do it.
BrokenSmile
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rko74 said:Maybe some of you can relate dont know lol but im still a 32 yr old virgin.My friend says you should get an escort, would you wait for the right person or pay for an escort? haha sorry if this is too much information.
Why do you think is so bad to still beeing a virgin? Is more beacuse your age and what other people think about this? If yes then you know that u shoudn't care about this.
You don't have to do what your friends think you should do. Is your choise! Just listen your body and soul and make what you really think is good for you and what you thing will gonna make you happy.
corsa
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i think deep down if you were going to sleep with a hooker for your first time, you would have done it already. I'd wait for something better to come along. Also if you want a female perspective, if i found out that the guy i was seeing has slept with escorts in the past (whether he told me this information himself or i found out through his mates), i would find it really unattractive, and would drop him because i would think he's a bit of a sleaze.
BrokenSmile
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StealThis said:rko74 said:Maybe some of you can relate dont know lol but im still a 32 yr old virgin.My friend says you should get an escort, would you wait for the right person or pay for an escort? haha sorry if this is too much information.
I think you are better off trying to sleep with a less than attractive woman for free.
No ofence Stealthis but i don't agree with you coz that woman could fall in love with him and will be sad if he will not love her back and "use" she just for losting his viginity.
And sex is not FOR FREE . You have to give back money or love. That makes the diference! For an escort you need just to have money to pay - -- is the easy way if you are rich. For the right person you have to spend your time and give you love. There's not middle course.
nedkelly
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Personally for me, seeing an escort would make me feel cheap, as i know that person does not love me(as they are being paid).
Each too there own i guess, but maybe one day that right person will come along for you. I really did believe i would never find that some one, then one day it somehow happened. I was 26 before i lost mine.
And as some others have said, it aint everything, even though it now seems like it. I know the pressure too do it, keeps buliding and building over time with frustration, but you first must seek a relationship before even thinking of the sex part.
Good luck mate, i do feel for you :wink:
Each too there own i guess, but maybe one day that right person will come along for you. I really did believe i would never find that some one, then one day it somehow happened. I was 26 before i lost mine.
And as some others have said, it aint everything, even though it now seems like it. I know the pressure too do it, keeps buliding and building over time with frustration, but you first must seek a relationship before even thinking of the sex part.
Good luck mate, i do feel for you :wink:
Septor
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BrokenSmile said:StealThis said:rko74 said:Maybe some of you can relate dont know lol but im still a 32 yr old virgin.My friend says you should get an escort, would you wait for the right person or pay for an escort? haha sorry if this is too much information.
I think you are better off trying to sleep with a less than attractive woman for free.
No ofence Stealthis but i don't agree with you coz that woman could fall in love with him and will be sad if he will not love her back and "use" she just for losting his viginity.
And sex is not FOR FREE . You have to give back money or love. That makes the diference! For an escort you need just to have money to pay - -- is the easy way if you are rich. For the right person you have to spend your time and give you love. There's not middle course.
BrokenSmile right on this one.
iamantisocial
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Based on experience, generally speaking, less attractive women are also less arrogant. They are friendlier and they are more open. The women who arent blessed with any good looks fall even for the lamest "pickup lines" cuz face it. they need a lovin too and they're happy when they receive attention from guys.
But the attractive ones are generally more arrogant. Cuz they are aware of the power their vagina wields over the minds of the male sex. They can get any man they want... of course they expect him to be rich, muscular, handsome, etc... they want a high-status male... whether he is a CEO (more on the financial aspect of "high status") or a biker//ghetto thug (more on the physical part of "high status"). They're less likely to settle for an average joe with an average job.
The above principle doesnt apply to only women... but to everything. Nature seems to have a principle that says that only the alpha are the first ones to have a right to pass on their genes to the next generation.
If for some reason, mother nature gives you the finger and says you have no right to pass on your genes... pfft... Just shove your middle finger up that bitch's ass (ideally speaking, tho its hard to do... tho I'm training myself to reach that level of dont-give-a-fuckness). Mother nature can be a mean, nasty bitch. :twisted:
