Unworthy of romance.

Condemned

Condemned

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I feel as if do not deserve to feel love. I feel as if I do not deserve to experience an essential part of life that everyone else has. I believe that being deprived from it is my punishment for something I am not aware of, and I long to find that answer.
 
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LilMissTragic

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The day you find a reason that comes up with the true fact as to why your not worthy is the day you can give up. Dont give up, everyones worthy of love.
 
lifesnotfair

lifesnotfair

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its easy to say not to feel this way, however, i have never had a girlfriend, and i am 22 years old. Nor do i feel like i want women in my life because of the fact that they don't want me.
 
Anonymous

Anonymous

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I used to feel very much like you and I have had some very bad experiences with men. However I belive that this feeling is part of sa and not the real truth. we are worthy of having love sadly not all the people in our lives know how to give it. Some people do not really know what love is anyway. They think feeling a stong sexual attraction to some one is love. Love between the opposite sex is just on type and it is often based on a selfish need to please onself. Love between friends is often missing as is love between family members. In order to love someone you need to recieve it. I have had a terrible childhood and even now it is hard for me to understand this love thing. But I am getting better at it and I have found people who do love me. There are people out there who will love you to but you must give them a chance. Real love takes time to grow but its worth it. Living you life in a lonely place is no way to live sometimes we have to take risks and we get hurt but when it works out it is wonderful.
 
loucat

loucat

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Everyone deserves love, look at how many bad people there are out there like murderers etc who have got someone to love and vice versa, i think you're being harsh on youself, i don't know you but i'm sure you're not a bad person
 
Anonymous

Anonymous

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hi

I had a few bad experiences with men I really liked them but they always said i was too shy.. the fact is 3 monthes ago i did meet someone and i thought i would never be happy.. but one night i went out i was feeling really really depressed thought i don't care what happens to me i want to die. that night i got pissed and met one of my male friends. friends that i had never met befor i stayd with him and i thought when i sober up he will just think i'm strange and too shy but we just click) I'm my self with him. ive never been my silly self with any man. But we just clicked its really strange one minit i want to die and the next my life falls in to place. he told me there is nothing rong with me I was just meeting the rong kind of men and he told me (I don't think you'r shy) nice to hear that. I think there is someone out there for you. you will meet them when you'r not looking
 
Homer

Homer

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I'm 21, male, and I have similar worries. But as for the part about just being cool about it and that you'll meet the right one when you're not looking: This is what most women around me have said (my mother, my stepmother, my grandmother and so on) .... and I've given it some thought and could it be - any maybe this is just my negative down-tearing SA talking - that this applies mostly to females only? I don't know about the rest of the world, but where I live *males* are "supposed to" act. Females may not be looking, but there are males that confront them and ask them out, usually not the other way around (I emphesize 'usually', that happens of course)..

Am I wrong? What do you think?
 
Anonymous

Anonymous

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hello

just wanted to say hello, to my two fav peoples in here. thought they might not remember me, i would like to say that i find them nice to me.

life's not fair and Lil miss tragic. thought i know one day they will leave this forum just as i do from time to time. is good to read your posts, both of you. cheers.
 
Johnie

Johnie

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loucat said:
Everyone deserves love, look at how many bad people there are out there like murderers etc who have got someone to love and vice versa, i think you're being harsh on youself, i don't know you but i'm sure you're not a bad person
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Some things piss me off but good. :x :x :x

I hear that Maxime Carr, the ex-girlfriend of the Soham child murderer Ian Huntley, wants to get back in with him again. Writing him letters in prison.

I used to have a bit of sympathy for her because she did not harm anybody. But now?

Do others here feel this way? It's like being an s-p is like being a 2nd class citizen, one step down from child murderers.

(There is a more-than-a-rumour the she is living not far from where I live. Different hairstyle. Haven't seen her though)

Johnie
 
loucat

loucat

Well-known member
i,ve got no sympathy for her, it makes me angry that the government is spending all this money on protecting her, although she didn't harm the girls she protected the man that did, ther's got to be something wrong with her if she can still love him after that
 
Evicted

Evicted

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Re: hi

Elkapath1 said:
I had a few bad experiences with men I really liked them but they always said i was too shy.. the fact is 3 monthes ago i did meet someone and i thought i would never be happy.. but one night i went out i was feeling really really depressed thought i don't care what happens to me i want to die. that night i got pissed and met one of my male friends. friends that i had never met befor i stayd with him and i thought when i sober up he will just think i'm strange and too shy but we just click) I'm my self with him. ive never been my silly self with any man. But we just clicked its really strange one minit i want to die and the next my life falls in to place. he told me there is nothing rong with me I was just meeting the rong kind of men and he told me (I don't think you'r shy) nice to hear that. I think there is someone out there for you. you will meet them when you'r not looking
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It happens sometimes! Elkapath1, good example for people like us searching constantly for true love. We must not desperate! Love can be closer than we think. :wink: In a minute, our lives could turn 360 degrees!!!! And the suffering of years before could be totally forgotten.
 
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LilMissTragic

Well-known member
Ohhhh if I knew earlier that all I needed to do was ask I coulda had a major snog fest!
(Snogs worrydolls face off)...ok, whos next?
Dont ya just love the tingly feeling of lovin in the air...lol
 
Jaco

Jaco

New member
Facing someone as hot as loucat gives me SP, racing heartbeat, sweating etc. Is there any cure to this?
 
Kien

Kien

Well-known member
Jaco said:
Facing someone as hot as loucat gives me SP, racing heartbeat, sweating etc. Is there any cure to this?
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Why do you revive threads?

I doubt it's her on the picture.
 
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