Uncomfortable with women approaching?

[NightTimeForever]

I've had this "problem" being uncomfortable with women approaching me, this seems like bragging but it really isn't. I'm really not at all confident, the more attractive the women the more nervous I get. Especially if it's a girl I've never met before and it's a random question.

I'd like to be more comfortable, not sure how though. Thoughts?

 

[coyote]

when it happens, get out of your own head immediately

concentrate on her

not on your thoughts

 

[NightTimeForever]

sound advice, wish it was that easy to follow in practice.

 

[coyote]

yeah - it's not easy - it takes practice - you may have to break some habits

 

[Arthur_Dent]

yeah - it's not easy - it takes practice - you may have to break some habits

I hard to take any practice when you don't get any approachings. I'm sure it doesn't help to spend all my free time inside my house, but then only scenario when I imagine I'll get any approaching will be a club, and I'm just not interested in a girl who goes clubbing.

There could be other places where a girl could approach me, but I don't think they're free and I don't have any money for my own fun.