Uncomfortable with attractive females

[Cool_Un_Cool]

I am 21, and am still uncomfortable with attractive women.
In school, and even at home I was ostracized and have had my sexuality questioned. I am 21, never had a girlfriend, am physically disabled, suffer from acne, and have been humiliated most of my life.
To me, not feeling comfortable with girls seems logical for someone like myself.

 

[4seasons]

You're not alone bro. Girls terrify me haha, yes "terrify". The thought of approaching a girl and asking her out is probably one of my biggest fears.

 

[Kien]

I feel a bit ugly around attractive women. I feel uncomfortable around attracting women. (<,<) They make you stupid.

 

[Zarrix]

Talk about it. It is hell at work atm. There is this very judging girl and a hell hot one too. I have never felt so uncomfortable around a person, except maybe a bully in primary school or a police officer one time. When she isn't on, I do very well at my job, if she is on, I do absolutely shit house. No one knows why I can be great one day, and absolutely crap the next. I nearly lost my job last week, because of this, I found out today.

 

[Kien]

Talk about it. It is hell at work atm. There is this very judging girl and a hell hot one too. I have never felt so uncomfortable around a person, except maybe a bully in primary school or a police officer one time. When she isn't on, I do very well at my job, if she is on, I do absolutely shit house. No one knows why I can be great one day, and absolutely crap the next. I nearly lost my job last week, because of this, I found out today.

This is quite serious. (O,o) What do you mean with judging?

 

[Zarrix]

You know, always checking whether you are doing your job properly, looking out for mistakes which she can fix to enhance her reputation while decreasing yours, making you look worse than you really are... Really bad. It will always be said as if you are in the wrong =(

I should of added negatively judging tbh.

 

[snipes]

I Know this sounds bad, but go and see a female escort , some of them specialise in lads that are dead shy around women. Might cost abit but it'll do your confidence the world of good! let me know how you get on.

 

[Kien]

I wish there were not attractiv females. Only boring not-worth-looking-at.

 

[SocialRetahd]

The best way to get over this is to realize they will never let you **** them ever, so why be shy?

 

[Quetzalcoatl]

I work in customer service (I picked up this job before my SA got the best of me, and Is till have it because I have bills to pay. I want to quit this job ASAP) and I deal with alot of attractive chicks and I work with alot more. Im pretty on edge all the time, and my mind is never with me, as I am always spacing out because im really tired and nervous. Im always awkward, and anxious. I fucking hate it. I can't help but think they all dislike me, and think little of me when I want nothing more than to just be myself and comfortable like everyone else there. Its a pain in the ass to deal with it and I dread working every day tot he point where I lose sleep over it and, consequently, do shitty the next day at work. Its really awful. It's driving me insane.

 

[IWouldPreferNotTo]

I work in customer service (I picked up this job before my SA got the best of me, and Is till have it because I have bills to pay. I want to quit this job ASAP) and I deal with alot of attractive chicks and I work with alot more. Im pretty on edge all the time, and my mind is never with me, as I am always spacing out because im really tired and nervous. Im always awkward, and anxious. I fucking hate it. I can't help but think they all dislike me, and think little of me when I want nothing more than to just be myself and comfortable like everyone else there. Its a pain in the ass to deal with it and I dread working every day tot he point where I lose sleep over it and, consequently, do shitty the next day at work. Its really awful. It's driving me insane.

I hear this. I work with computers and usually I all right at dealing with the customer, but if it's a hottie I can't think straight because I'm so worried about doing or saying something dumb. I get so nervous. The thing is, it's not like I'm trying to hit on the chicks or anything, I just want to do my job.

 

[snipes]

LIKE I SAID BEFORE, GO SEE A PROSTITUTE!!!!!!!!! It did me the world of good.

 

[Quetzalcoatl]

Yeah, I agree IPerferNot, I'm never trying to hit on anyone, but that evolutionary motivation to be attractive is almost fighting with my rationality and it makes shit difficult.