This is gonna have to happen...

[Diend]

So next term I might get into a class called video production. I found out though that you have to make your OWN groups. That means, spontaneity and insecurity for me which equals breakdown and anxiety. So i need some tips for joining a group if the classmates i end up with don't know me very well.

 

[Harleyq]

I know this is way easier said than done but the best thing I can think of is to turn to the group nearest you, smile, and go "Mind if I join?"

It helps to put things in perspective. What on Earth is there about you that will honestly and realistically make them go "No"? Probably nothing. Plus, nobody's going to have the attitude of "Ugh! Another person to help with the workload. Dammit." If you can keep that in mind, it might give you a bit of courage.

 

[Nack]

Can't you drop that class? Unless your degree required it then... i don't know, lol.

 

[lunarla]

I get really anxious with group things where we have to choose our own groups. I'd much rather do work on my own. Or if not that, at least be put into assigned groups.

But I agree with Harleyq. That's actually along the lines of what I've done recently. I basically just made eye contact with this girl that I sorrrrt of knew, but not really well and asked if I could join. She and the other girl in her group agreed enthusiastically!

So really, just go for it. If you're worried about being turned down, just think to yourself who seems like a kind hearted person in the class. Just use your judgment of human character and then ask someone who probably wouldn't turn you down due to that.

 

[freestylemonster]

I know this is way easier said than done but the best thing I can think of is to turn to the group nearest you, smile, and go "Mind if I join?"

For us it's just as hard to say as it is to do