Thinking of dating other females..

[enchantress24]

Im a female myself who's had the worst luck in love when it comes to guys. I'm gonna be turning 25 this year and I have yet to be in a serious relationship. Never had a real bf in my life. For some weird reason, men don't like me or that's the way it seems. Everytime I meet someone, something happens and it all goes down the drain. I'm not just blaming them, it's me as well. I just can't seem to find that person I click with. I'm sick of meeting guys that have only sex on their minds or can't have a mature conversation. It's disgusting. I pretty much have given up. Too much heartache. I don't even want to have sex with any guy anymore.

I recently started thinking of how it would be to date other females. It would be so much different being with a girl. I know i could find someone much more smarter than any guy I've ever met and maybe sex would be much better. I don't want to sound selfish or desperate but I'm tired of being so lonely all the time.

 

[Elad]

If its what you really want to do, go for it and don't let anyone talk you out of it.

Are you actually sexually attracted to other women? Or is more of just longing for companionship thing?

 

[enchantress24]

Try it and see how it works for you. I agree, sometimes looking around at all the guys I'm just like "F*ck these are my options..?" But I also think girls can be just as terrible, I think it comes down to the individual really. But who knows its all a mystery to me. I suspect I just don't like people in general ::

Girl, we don't have a lot to choose from when it comes to options. I think it's in their genes.

 

[enchantress24]

If its what you really want to do, go for it and don't let anyone talk you out of it.

Are you actually sexually attracted to other women? Or is more of just longing for companionship thing?

No, it's not a sexual attraction. I'm not even sexually attracted to men anymore. Like you said, it's more of just longing for companionship. More than just a best friend or gf, a soulmate. On the plus side, sex might be better. Most guys just care about their own satisfaction when it comes to sex.

 

[Elad]

No, it's not a sexual attraction. I'm not even sexually attracted to men anymore. Like you said, it's more of just longing for companionship. More than just a best friend or gf, a soulmate. On the plus side, sex might be better. Most guys just care about their own satisfaction when it comes to sex.

Well then go for it, you wont know until you try.

also inb4 religious people

 

[Celephaïs]

Most guys are wired that way. Blame it on biology.
Unless of course they're taking handfulls of anti depressants.
As far as loneliness goes I got used to it. (not wanting children helped me come to terms with it) Nowadays I don't even know if I could handle a significant other.