The family rows (quarrels) and the social phobia - read it!

[Marvolo]

Hi,

First of all, I would suggest to the mod to stick this topic as it can be really helpful and can be important.

I just read on some forum some interesting text. It refers to some specialist text on the site http://www.chirurgianaczyn.org/index.php?str=chirurgia&chirurgia=3 - I'll translate the fragment below:

"In the sociophobia treatment research, Teleranta discovers that 47% of the tested people were psychically maltreated. This kind of psychical violence was a result of (...) passive participating in the family rows, (...)".

I don't know who that Teleranta is, but the general meaning is as above.

What do you think about it? Can it have any impact on our phobia? :?:

Did you have the family rows (quarrels) at home, when you're children? I did have some, as probably the great majority of people, but I didn't realize what impact can it have on anything.

It is very embarrassing, I hope you'll take an attitude towards this subject, as it's so astonishing.

Cheers to you!

 

[Foxglove]

Yeah, my parents used to fight all the time when I was a kid. My dad would hit my mom, and say horrible things to her. I always felt it was my fault when they argued. When I was about 12, my dad stopped hitting my mom and started hitting-kicking-beating me instead. My mother encouraged it, too, the bitch. I was also emotionally abused, was always made to feel like I had to be perfect to be loved.

 

[Marvolo]

Oh, it's very sad... I'm sorry for you.

So bad, it wasn't at me.

Console yourself, that it's over... :?
I hope it's fine now at you.

Cheers!