Struggling at Partys

[Richey]

Anyone find it hard to think of anything to say when your out with people. I went to a bar the other night with a group of six people. Parts of the night were fun however i seem to struggle to find subjects to talk to about, everyone else seemed to be in seventh heaven, joking around, as witty as you could imagine. I found it very hard to relax. It ended up being a harrowing night for me. I started to panic and had to hide in the male toilets just to pass some time.

*Sighs* I guess ill have to keep trying.

 

[Clash]

getting piss drunk doesn't hurt... what were you drinking at a bar? pepsi?

 

[allanboy]

Yeah, drinking really looses you. Maybe there´s a real chatter inside of you, but just too shy to come out? Mister Alcohol will help you out with that.

 

[introvert]

Alcohol helps, although from what I have observed, I no longer get the effect from 2-3 drinks while on paxil. My vision doesn't go slo-mo, or anything, but it does calm me a bit. I don't go much over 2-3 though.

 

[Hurricane]

the problem with alcohol though is that you FEEL better, but you actually LOOK more anxious to other people, but hey...u'll be too drunk to even care

 

[introvert]

Hi Hurricane, why do you think you look more anxious after drinking booze? One would think that if you feel more calm, you also look it (and perhaps a bit smiley and drunk also..).

 

[Hurricane]

Hi Hurricane, why do you think you look more anxious after drinking booze? One would think that if you feel more calm, you also look it (and perhaps a bit smiley and drunk also..).

I dont believe it myself, but that's what I read somewhere, maybe from some anti-alcohol-dudes

 

[longlivesolitude]

Hehe.. I could just imagine myself being really drunk and feeling great, but everyone seing me walking around as nervous wreck just waiting to snap 8O

 

[Hurricane]

Hehe.. I could just imagine myself being really drunk and feeling great, but everyone seing me walking around as nervous wreck just waiting to snap 8O

maybe that's an indication of how people just dont give a¨f*ck how nervous a person is

 

[scatmantom]

I feel like this sometimes...especially if its with people outside my circle of friends! But drink helps...and you dont have to talk, listening and laughing along with the stories and jokes told is just the way some people are.

 

[abc12345]

the last party is was at was at a chucky cheese i had a blast :lol: :lol: :lol:

 

[kkidd8]

Hurricane,
You absolutely do not look more anxious when drinking. Where did you hear that???

Alcohol makes you more mellow, and shit like that. You must not be a drinker.

 

[tewstroke]

me too abc, like 3 months ago! :lol: