Thanks redski and Serafina.
You have both really helped me.
She knows very much how I feel about her. I think I was too honest, and I put too much pressure on her. I think this all resulted from me talking about coming over to the US to see her, and she is too scared because we have been so open with each other that there is now a large amount of expectations from us both. The idea terrifies me, too, but I know it's something I will have to face at some time in my life, and with her, at least she understands my problems. And I was hoping she would realize that I understand hers, too.
Yes, she said this morning that it was mostly to do with her not feeling good enough for me (and partly to do with the pressure.) I don't know why she feels this way, because I'm absolutely nothing special, at all. And she is an amazing person. I am willing to be extremely patient, and I would stick with her for the rest of my life, but I don't even know if I will get to speak to her again now. Part of me wants to drop everything and go over there to see her. I don't know her address, but I know her name and what town she's in... But I can't do that to her, because I don't think it's fair. If she is that nervous of seeing me, then I don't want to push her anxiety over the edge. I've been there (over the edge,) and I had a mental breakdown as a result of the anxiety, which ruined my life. I would never want to do that to her.
She is definitely what I want, though, yes. Even if I can only be her friend after this, it would mean the world to me. I don't want to lose her completely.
Thank you both, again.
I'm going to edit my first post now, because I'm worried she may read it, and it wouldn't be fair for her to read those things.