self-hatred

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[dearmili]

Take baby steps..Whatever u did....u did the best u could with what u had at the time.The more u learn the better choices u make..so take baby steps while u learn

 

[NothingElseMatters]

How do you quit hating yourself? That is my biggest problem. i know one way would be to not take yourself so seriously. but it seems very serious when you feel like all you've done is ruin things for yourself, it's nobody's fault but my own. i wish i could just leave this stupid mind with these stupid memories. I often feel like i either need to die or do something big, or else things will not change. The dying part i cannot bring myself to do atm. I'd rather live the rest of my life in agony.
thanks for reading this pointless crap.

not pointless at all.u said you want to do something big so dont give up on that thought.start working on that big thing and leave that alternative behind,at least for as long as you are working on the big thing.as dearmili said take baby steps.And i mean even the smallest stupid think that you put effort to will make you like yourself a bit more

 

[Misterhopefull]

Maybe if you can sway your mind into thinking that everything so far that happened isn't your fault or anyone else's. And the only real thing you can ever blame yourself for is blaming/hating yourself for stuff that isn't your fault.

Sounds tangled i know but hope you get it.

 

[recluse]

You stop hating yourself when you start loving yourself. How? I don't know.

 

[Redzer]

its not an unanswerable question at all, Recluse said it right:

You stop hating yourself when you start loving yourself

 

[JCS008]

Or maybe easier. You'll stop hating yourself when you accept yourself for your good AND bad traits....we all have them.