Midnight
Active member
I find that every day is such a struggle just to not make an idiot of myself somehow, but then I always do, like in lessons if the teacher asks me a question about something I always go red and have a mind blank even if I know the answer. Any kind of public speaking we have to do sends me into a state of panick, cause it's one of my biggest fears having to stand up in front of a group of however many people and talk since I always end up humiliating myself by getting so nervous, like going bright red and stuttering over all my words which makes people notice when they probably wouldn't have been paying attention anyway which makes it even worse.. I hate how people don't understand how horrible this shit is so they think it's ok to laugh about how nervous I get, some people even laugh in my face like there's one group who'll call me over when I'm alone and start saying shit like oohh are you scared of us or something? Which I am cause I always get intimidated by the outgoing/loud people then I just do something dumb cause I'm so nervous like just not answer and walk away with a red face. Cause I can't stand up for myself at all.. I hate how even when I'm with my friends I get anxious cause I'm the only quiet one in the group and I can only feel comfortable when I'm with like 2-3 of them, cause when we're all in a big group I feel too anxious to speak out in front of them all so I just stay silent. I also don't get paid attention to much cause I'm so quiet and boring and people will only listen to the more extroverted ones.. Then again when it's just one-on-one with me and a friend I worry about what to say and then my mind just goes blank and there ends up being loads of awkward silences or just complete silence. Phone calls for this reason are like 10x worse.
I always try to bottle it all up and act like nothing is wrong cause I simply can't open up to anyone about this not my friends or family or anyone...
*sigh* had to let this out :/
any advice or comments appreciated..
I always try to bottle it all up and act like nothing is wrong cause I simply can't open up to anyone about this not my friends or family or anyone...
*sigh* had to let this out :/
any advice or comments appreciated..