Sa and eating

Silentnoise

Member
Aside from being in packed public places eating infront of people is still a huge problem for me. I can handle it infront of some family members alright but at take out places i get really panicy or i stop eating till people around me leave. Also when im at a strangers house, no matter how hungry i am i cant accept food...

Anyone have this problem?
 

Heartbeat

Active member
I used to but it was never the worst thing. If I had a choice between talking on the phone in front of people or eating in front of them I'd rather eat.
 

IceLad

Well-known member
When I know I'll be eating in a public place, I compromise on what I choose to eat and stick to non-messy foods. Sometimes however, I still manage to make a mess of the foods I've chosen anyway!

I also get very self conscious of the noise I make when eating.
 

loucat

Well-known member
i used to have huge problems eating in front of others,especially at school my hands would shake and i would feel so sick, i always wanted a drink to make my mouth less dry but would be terrified that my hands would shake so much i'd spill it everywhere. i used to feel like such a freak taht i even considered suicide. i,m not so bad these days, i find it easier to eat in casual settings like friend's houses but i think that's only because i kept making myself go and try not to avoid it. i still am not keen on restaurants but the more you do it the less daunting it becomes
 

Nie

Well-known member
Yes I have this problem too.
I can merely eat when I feel up to it and when I'm all by myself.
Same goes for drinking water or something, if I have to do these things while being watched I feel extremely distressed.
So I often don't eat or drink anything for a long time.
When I'm eating in public and some food gets stuck in my throat I don't dare to swallow or something.. guess I would rather suffocate than draw attention to me.
 

Danfalc

Banned
Im scared in pretty much any social situation full stop.But eating in public or in front of others isnt somthing that bothers me.It actualy helps me a little as i consentrate on eating and that takes my mind of my negative thoughts and anxiety.

It did bother me a few years back, but i think i got desensatised to it when i lived in a hostel with like 12 other people as we had a group meal every week.
 

scatmantom

Well-known member
thats a good idea dan

Eating in restraunts is the only time I feel bad, and its only if i think about it in advance that I have a problem. If I decide to go with some friends during a lunch break I dont have a problem, but if i know there is going to be a meal in a few weeks it will be harder to deal with for me.
 
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