questioning their sexuality

[Anonymous]

anyone else here so confused and depressed about their sexuality, because i am a guy, i have never been with a women or a guy, and i am just really confused in if i am not normal you know, i really don't know what sex and love is, so either which way i am just at a total loss in who i am and what sexuality i am. I am not sure if this is the proper forum, however, it is kinda related to SP

 

[Anonymous]

i think its a question to "who thinks that i am attractive?"

 

[Anonymous]

I've never had an issue with this. If a girl sits on my lap, I get an erection, if she is replaced with a guy (which doesn't happen much), I get limp real quick.

Maybe you should go to a strip club to find out whether women are your thing.

 

[GettingThere]

I should think that the sexuality question is a pretty straight forward thing. You watch television don't you?
So, you just have to ask yourself, who does it for you? Who do you fantasise about, men or women?

 

[Remus]

maybe he has a crush on a man?

which would mean love, not everything in life is governed by your dick lads :roll:

 

[Anonymous]

i am attracted to women, but i don't know i never have gotten any signs from women, but at the same time, i don't know what to think, like i think about guys too, but i prefer women, but its really hard because i just don't know.. because i am stuck between a rock and a hard place, and i can't just stimply follow my heart because i don' t what to think or do, because nobody seems to care which way i go...

 

[Braddles]

anyone else here so confused and depressed about their sexuality, because i am a guy, i have never been with a women or a guy, and i am just really confused in if i am not normal you know, i really don't know what sex and love is, so either which way i am just at a total loss in who i am and what sexuality i am. I am not sure if this is the proper forum, however, it is kinda related to SP

Hi there, i'm going through a similar situaton myself. I have been openly gay for about five years, but have only come to realise now that I have a problem with social anxiety. For me this SA could be linked somehow to my sexuality as I have had problems coping with it and accepting being gay on a personal level. However, I can understand completely where u are coming from and it may not be an issue of simply whether u r gay or straight as perhaps being an issue with your self love.
write back.....cya.