PartsUnknown
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Richey
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Your post above is one of the main causes of my SP. I find it hard to say what i want around people who seem to be on a higher plane then me.
I also become very self conscious because i dont feel comfortable going to places where everyone is so good looking with perfect hair and toned bodies and magnetic personalities. My advice is to accept yourself before you can feel comfortable in public. If you arn't exactly proud of yourself then you will never feel comfortable anywhere. Once you know what your about then things will improve for you
I also become very self conscious because i dont feel comfortable going to places where everyone is so good looking with perfect hair and toned bodies and magnetic personalities. My advice is to accept yourself before you can feel comfortable in public. If you arn't exactly proud of yourself then you will never feel comfortable anywhere. Once you know what your about then things will improve for you
April
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Totally agree..
Funny, since I have realised that I have SA, I have been in total CONFLICT with myself. I find myself somewhat disgusted with my self (behaviour/actions) because my SA FALSE mask self (who is afraid) does not represent me (the person that I really am). But I can't help showing the world my false mask SA self because I live in fear of judgement, criticism, riducle etc. For me, it's a vicious circle. But I know to get out of the circle I need to learn to love and accept myself exactly as I am. Problem is, so far I haven't figured out how to do this.
April
Funny, since I have realised that I have SA, I have been in total CONFLICT with myself. I find myself somewhat disgusted with my self (behaviour/actions) because my SA FALSE mask self (who is afraid) does not represent me (the person that I really am). But I can't help showing the world my false mask SA self because I live in fear of judgement, criticism, riducle etc. For me, it's a vicious circle. But I know to get out of the circle I need to learn to love and accept myself exactly as I am. Problem is, so far I haven't figured out how to do this.
April
Septor
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Yep Richey is right it is about accept yourself or you will never feel comfortable anywhere.That's what my problem is.I have not had any success in being comfortable with my self or loving my self.There for i'm stuck in my own self made hole and it's hard to get out of it
bluenow
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PartsUnknown said:
I would first try correcting the feeling of being disgusted with yourself. You have to do whatever it takes to cope and if that means a "disguise" then do it. And don't feel guilty. F anybody that doesn't like it.
You are not a lesser person that is to act in a certain way. You have the right to act any way you want.
You have the right to be in public. Just as much as the next person. This is your world and your space.