Well, I think sometimes webmaster searches log charts, so be careful what you say!!
You might also wanna learn to take screenshots or such, if needed? Or save the chats?
If other people may say stuff that can be interpreted as hmm, questionable, maybe think first if you haven't said something to trigger them off and check with them if things are okay?
It may be too late for that hmm??
I do like Smurfs the cartoon & think that 'Flirty Smurf' is way better than 'Flirty user' - I mean, you're not using people in flirty ways - or are you??
('user' makes me think of 'needles' and 'crack'/heroin/illegal drugs or such..)
Or are you using your flirty charms as deadly weapons?
On the other hand I'm against nicknames being given without people's consent (hint hint

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So, big dilemma!! See, that's why I don't wanna be a mod! lol! Heavy work they have indeed!!