I would really appreciate your help. I think a family member has SA and really want to help them. It's been going on for a few years. Basically he stays in his room a lot. He's 28 lives at home, is very secretive, uses the internet a lot ,avoids social events. Doesn't seem to have friends, doesn't keep up friendships, is very quiet in company. Seems very self conscious of his actions, I think he feels people judge him. Often explains a social situation and asks of his actions "was that wierd"/ "was that OK". He drinks on his own in secret in his room. Not sure of the extent of the drinking so not sure if it a problem. Stays up late and has mentioned difficulty sleeping. Doesn't have relationships.
On the plus side he has a successful career, goes to work evrey day passes exams etc.
He's a great person and I just feel life is passing him by. I have tried to talk to him about this but he clams up and gets annoyed. I think he is very proud and doesn't want to appear weak. In your opinion does he have SA. If yes, what's the best way to approach this/help. I would really appreciate your help. Thank you so much for reding this.
On the plus side he has a successful career, goes to work evrey day passes exams etc.
He's a great person and I just feel life is passing him by. I have tried to talk to him about this but he clams up and gets annoyed. I think he is very proud and doesn't want to appear weak. In your opinion does he have SA. If yes, what's the best way to approach this/help. I would really appreciate your help. Thank you so much for reding this.