LittleMissScareAll
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Anybody here who's in a relationship or has been in a relationship...do you ever fear you're going to lose the person you're with because of your depression/social phobia/paranoia/etc...? Or do you think you have ruined a past relationship due to those things?
I worry that all the time but especially lately... my current relationship is the only good relationship I've ever had but lately...I can't help feeling that I'm going to ruin it somehow. 8O I've even gotten so weird lately that I ask him if I'm boring him, if I'm aggravating him, or if he doesn't want to talk to me. I'm so stupid. He tells me I never bore/aggravate him, and that he always does want to talk to me, but I dunno, I just feel like sometimes he doesn't or that I bug him... I don't know why... just me being paranoid, I guess. :? I think it's partly because of my stupid ex boyfriends...they all either cheated on me(which I dont think this guy will cheat on me, I trust him there)...or they just stopped talking to me, started avoiding me...started ignoring me completely. THAT's the part I'm worried about...because pretty much all of my exes all started to just ignore me eventually and I don't want that to happen with this boyfriend
Anybody know any tips to make me less paranoid? Cause I if I keep asking him things like that he's probably eventually going to REALLY get annoyed by it, and then I will lose him. And I don't think I could live without him, because he's basically all that's kept me going, ever since I met him. Right before I met him, I was having really bad suicidal thoughts...but when I met him, it was like I just felt better. And not only is he my boyfriend, but my best and only friend, too.
I worry that all the time but especially lately... my current relationship is the only good relationship I've ever had but lately...I can't help feeling that I'm going to ruin it somehow. 8O I've even gotten so weird lately that I ask him if I'm boring him, if I'm aggravating him, or if he doesn't want to talk to me. I'm so stupid. He tells me I never bore/aggravate him, and that he always does want to talk to me, but I dunno, I just feel like sometimes he doesn't or that I bug him... I don't know why... just me being paranoid, I guess. :? I think it's partly because of my stupid ex boyfriends...they all either cheated on me(which I dont think this guy will cheat on me, I trust him there)...or they just stopped talking to me, started avoiding me...started ignoring me completely. THAT's the part I'm worried about...because pretty much all of my exes all started to just ignore me eventually and I don't want that to happen with this boyfriend
Anybody know any tips to make me less paranoid? Cause I if I keep asking him things like that he's probably eventually going to REALLY get annoyed by it, and then I will lose him. And I don't think I could live without him, because he's basically all that's kept me going, ever since I met him. Right before I met him, I was having really bad suicidal thoughts...but when I met him, it was like I just felt better. And not only is he my boyfriend, but my best and only friend, too.