Okay... so I'm being whiny again!!!

w*n*c*a*m

Well-known member
I think my username should be "whiny w*n*c*a*m"

anyway, I was so whiny yesterday because of a lot of things...
simple things that a "whiny w*ngch*rm" could only whine

- A guy friend visited (that neighbor again)... then we ended up surfing the net and checking his
"Friendster" account... and then I saw in his friend's list
a name similar to mine (you see, I have a unique name so I was kind'a
surprised to see someone similar to my name "even the spelling") Anyway,
I just commented "I thought my name is unique!" and guess what he replied?
"Yeah! And She's prettier than you!"

I was kind'a pissed off by that. I don't even care how that person looks!
And to think that nasty reply came from a guy! :evil:

- after that we went outside. When i was about to sit beside him, he transferred to the other side
and blurted out "I think you should sit there" (what he really mean is that I should sit near his bestfriend)
That was so embarassing! But in a joking way I told him
"to stop playing cupid, "Addict"!" :evil:

- And then we talked about music, he realized that I love playing punk rock and I was having a great time talking with his bestfriend
because we have the same taste in music. Then he suddenly said "Ah! now I know! You're a "tomboy"" :evil:
I really want to punch his nose at that time... but as usual, I just replied in a joking way like "How could you?"
But what I really wanna say to him is "Oh! So maybe you're gay!"

- And so we just hang out there until late evening. Thankfully, my sister
is with us to keep the conversation lively. But as hours passed, what I've been
worrying about is that I already feel sleepy and they don't even have a slightest
signal of wanting to go home. And so at 1130 pm. I just told them that I wanna
sleep now and I went to my room with my sister to entertain those two.

That made me realize that I'm not really suited for social situations because
I easily get bored. Maybe it's not really me. Maybe i should stop whining about
being aloof with other people because it's not really me...

but what I'm thinking right now is that guy friend!
He's still the usual funny guy I talked with but he have some moments that
he gives rude comments "out of the blue"... like he's being sarcastic.
But when he sees me he'll tell me that he misses me!
What Should I do to a weird person like him?!!!! :evil:
 
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dan_e

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Tell him you don't want to hang around him anymore because of his rude remarks. Sounds like a jerk to me. He says he misses you to make you feel wanted and suck you back in so he can continue to chop away at your self esteem. This is not how a friend acts. STAY AWAY.
 

noblame4

Well-known member
I agree with Dan_e. This guy sounds like a total dick. He probably senses that you are introverted and keeps hanging on to you so he can make himself feel more powerful by tearing you down. A lot of people are pathetic like that.
 

Danfalc

Banned
yeah +1... i agree on the he sounds like a prick lol.And meh... its human nature to "whine",dont be harsh on yaself..everyone needs to vent now and again.

Sometimes people take the piss as a laugh sorta thing,I kinda use to be like that before i got social anxiety bad.But saying stuff like "she's prettier than you" is just bang out of order and a step too far. I would of said sommat like 99.9% of the guys on this earth are more attractive than you but i dont feel the need to point it out.But hindsight is a wonderfull thing.

But yeah maybe he's one of those idiots who feels the need to put other people down to give himself and ego boost,if thats the case yeah your better off without people like that.Maybe he's insecure tho and just doesnt know how to act around you or is just trying to act funny and the big man in front of his mate :roll: It wouldnt suprise me if he actualty fancied you tho ya know.Thats way he maybe started saying shit again when you started getting on with his mate.

Id give hime a chance.. and just give him shit back and see how he likes it,but if he keeps being out of order just tell him he better start get use to missing you if hes gonna be a "stupid face" (that cracked me up Psychedelicious :lol: ) And you getting bored is probaly more of a reflection on his company than anything to do wid you.
 

w*n*c*a*m

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hehe! I appreciated all your replies! That was really funny... how you've described him... like his the biggest shit ever lived on earth! hahaha! Now i'm becoming mean. hahahhah!

Anyway, I don't think I could ever ignore him because he's my neighbor, my childhood friend, and one of the rare guys that my parents trust... plus he's also my sister's friend.

I'll just do what Danfalc said:
just give him shit back and see how he likes it
:twisted:
 

w*n*c*a*m

Well-known member
just give him shit back and see how he likes it

Ok so here's the next story.

Through text,we talked about applying for a job and then he asked me about my latest job application, so i told him that I failed 1 out of 5 exams so I was given a chance to retake it. Guess what he replied?:[ "You deserve it...haha! joke only" ] I don't care if it was a joke but it really pissed me off. I replied ["Oh yeah! Don't worry I will fail that exam to make you happy!!!"] And he replied ["Hey! don't be stupid. Pass the exam... or else, apply to Mc Donalds... haha!"] I don't know if he's really encouraging me or just mocking me. Anyway, I did not reply after that.

The next day, he visited. he was blabbing about his "training in a nice hotel", that he got the highest score in their exams, and there are lots of pretty girls there, and he keeps on repeating the "pretty girls" part, and I was just silent, facing the computer and not minding him. But then he keeps on repeating about those pretty girls, that he'll maybe pick one of those girls for a gf... (like he's just picking from a bunch of candies). And then I blurted out "Oh! So maybe you'll consider yourself getting pretty too!" (LOL! It really got to his nerves!) And he suddenly stopped talking and said "What did you say?"... and I repeated it.... and he keeps on asking "What did you say?".... "Me? getting pretty?" "Right?" ... but I totally ignored him while facing the PC. And he suddenly said "YOU... DIE!" and I replied, while smiling... "OH! THANK YOU!" hahaha! I could see that he was really pissed off!


Ok so what happened next? He's not totally mad at me, I guess he forgot about what happened. And I observed that he's more often texting me and sending me quotes. But for now... I'll just have to ignore him.
 

DrunkPanda

Member
your post is kind of hard to follow at some points but it sounds like the guy has a crush on you but is too stupid to express his attraction properly so he insults you and tried to make you jealous talking about all his pretty coworkers
 

w*n*c*a*m

Well-known member
ok so why would he want to match me with his bestfriend?
He even talked to me privately, and told me that his bestfriend
likes me and if I would give his bestfriend a chance. And I said
I'm not really interested with his bestfriend and I only like him as a friend.

I guess it all started there... i rejected his bestfriend. So what?
Why would he suddenly act shitty to me? But it's just a guess.
and if that's the real reason... that was so low!
 
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