Legiac
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I can't believe I never saw it before! I was never afraid of being in social situations to begin with! I've been extremely shy all my life, and I could never figure it out but I think I just came to a stunning conclusion - You're not afraid of what you think you are!
This is so weird, but so true. When you have extreme fears (social anxiety, panic attacks, etc), you start becoming afraid - not of the actual subject you think you fear so much - but of the very fear itself! It's just a pattern that can be broken whenever you want to break it
The only way to break it is to quit obsessing on the topic - the more focus you give it, the more fear you'll have. Now I understand why if I didn't get any/much sleep at all, the next day I'd be almost invincible (lol). Apparently if you avert your attention from the fear, you can learn to feel so much better and fear so much less! It's so much easier than we've made it out to be.
Look, it might sound like it's 'too good to be true', or that it's 'wishful thinking', but if you really think so - then you're never going to see it, unfortunately. Skeptics, this one isn't going to work for you. Sometimes you just have to break old ways. And trust me on this one
This is so weird, but so true. When you have extreme fears (social anxiety, panic attacks, etc), you start becoming afraid - not of the actual subject you think you fear so much - but of the very fear itself! It's just a pattern that can be broken whenever you want to break it
The only way to break it is to quit obsessing on the topic - the more focus you give it, the more fear you'll have. Now I understand why if I didn't get any/much sleep at all, the next day I'd be almost invincible (lol). Apparently if you avert your attention from the fear, you can learn to feel so much better and fear so much less! It's so much easier than we've made it out to be.
Look, it might sound like it's 'too good to be true', or that it's 'wishful thinking', but if you really think so - then you're never going to see it, unfortunately. Skeptics, this one isn't going to work for you. Sometimes you just have to break old ways. And trust me on this one