The reason nobody has any advice to offer is that they've probably not dealt with these problems before. SA is an illness that takes time for each individual to understand for themselves and there isn't much advice togive except to let everything negative roll off your back. Focus on the positive and you will end up ok. If people don't want to help you with your problems, you do have us, but I'm sure your an intelligent person and can figure out whatever is going on. It may take time, but you'll get this under control.
Best wishes.
Peace