Shyguy4
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We all know people have flaws to them which could be bad personalities, bad habits, scars, and many more things. If I asked you to name a person that didn't have flaws you would probably have a very short list or no list at all.
Even celebrities have flaws, models, and high society people. So why do we want to change ourselves? It's a pointless thing to do in life why not just be who you are? We don't want people to judge us and think bad of us so we try to change the flaws in ourselves..o.k. so change them let me give you a flaw of mine and see if that changes anything. One flaw that I have out of many is that I don't have many friends so my goal is to get more friends... but wait how am I supposed to get more friends if I get anxious all the time o.k. lets become better at socializing oh but wait I can't become better if I can't even start socializing. o.k. whatever I just going to get some new clothes a new haircut look my best then maybe girls will talk to me at parties and I will become popular. Now I'm perfect I look great I'm popular and I got better at socializing great! wow perfect says who? To others I'm not perfect there will always be someone who won't think your perfect. We want to be perfect so people will like us. when the truth is not everyone is going to like you .... Why aren't you friends with everyone you met in your life? Some people won't like you and some might even see you as perfect flaws and all.
We can always change for the better but we can never change to be best.
Even celebrities have flaws, models, and high society people. So why do we want to change ourselves? It's a pointless thing to do in life why not just be who you are? We don't want people to judge us and think bad of us so we try to change the flaws in ourselves..o.k. so change them let me give you a flaw of mine and see if that changes anything. One flaw that I have out of many is that I don't have many friends so my goal is to get more friends... but wait how am I supposed to get more friends if I get anxious all the time o.k. lets become better at socializing oh but wait I can't become better if I can't even start socializing. o.k. whatever I just going to get some new clothes a new haircut look my best then maybe girls will talk to me at parties and I will become popular. Now I'm perfect I look great I'm popular and I got better at socializing great! wow perfect says who? To others I'm not perfect there will always be someone who won't think your perfect. We want to be perfect so people will like us. when the truth is not everyone is going to like you .... Why aren't you friends with everyone you met in your life? Some people won't like you and some might even see you as perfect flaws and all.
We can always change for the better but we can never change to be best.
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