elle321
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Hi, I'm still new to this forum, and I hope to get the help that I need. I'm a 20-year-old female college student.
Could anyone kindly give me your opinion, or any advice on how to cope? Or a link to a helpful website?
My current biggest problem is either a panic or flashback. It lasts for hours, hits any time of a day. When I'm in panic, I can't even do those "grounding methods" and I swear the fear is worse than death. It could drive me to automatically kill myself.
My T told me the "flashback" was just a withdrawal symptom from stop taking Asendin I was supposed to keep taking. I hated the Asendin because it didn't "lift my moods" like my Dr. told me. Instead, it just made me drowsy and engage in worse bulimic behaviors.
But it's been a while since I stopped taking Asendin, and I still have anxiety and panic, so it's more than just a withdrawal symptom, right? So like many self-help sites say, I tried sending e-mails to friends and calling suicidal hotlines, but my friends of course don't reply, and overall, nothing has worked. (Except for overdosing on OTC meds. My liver must be failing.)
I have no friends. Anyone I've met, once they got to know what kind of person I was, left me. They refuse any contact with me. Borderline personality I believe is what I have. (Just a self-diagnosis.) Moreover, most of traits written in the Personality disorder "cluster B" applies to me as well.
I've been bulimic since age 15. I'm currently anorexic, which stabilizes my mind because it's one in my short list of coping methods, along with self-injury and suicidal attempts.
I plan to quit college because my poor concentration has gotten worse and can't read anything anymore. It's also hard for me to understand auditory information.
I'm too anxious in public places, so when I'm sitting in class I often become panicked, so many times I "run away" and go home and engage in bulimic behaviors (binge and purge). This was the pattern. I'm now too tired to go through this routine. I curse myself for lacking self-control. I'm a lazy pig.
But education doesn't seem to matter anymore. I have numerous health problems partially because of the dysfunctional family I was raised in. For example, my spine became acutely curved at 13, and at 18 I was finally able to have a surgery to correct it. But it was too late I think. I'm going to die soon from liver illness or something. I was abused in every way and it just showed itself in my spine.
I swear the panic and fear is worse than death. Does anyone know how to die without pain? I don't want anything from life any more. No one loves me, I swear.
Or, does anyone know how to stop being so anxious without meds? Like holistic dietary supplements? Note that my panic is intense. I hate therapies. They don't really know. I can't afford inpatient programs. Life is awful.
Could anyone kindly give me your opinion, or any advice on how to cope? Or a link to a helpful website?
My current biggest problem is either a panic or flashback. It lasts for hours, hits any time of a day. When I'm in panic, I can't even do those "grounding methods" and I swear the fear is worse than death. It could drive me to automatically kill myself.
My T told me the "flashback" was just a withdrawal symptom from stop taking Asendin I was supposed to keep taking. I hated the Asendin because it didn't "lift my moods" like my Dr. told me. Instead, it just made me drowsy and engage in worse bulimic behaviors.
But it's been a while since I stopped taking Asendin, and I still have anxiety and panic, so it's more than just a withdrawal symptom, right? So like many self-help sites say, I tried sending e-mails to friends and calling suicidal hotlines, but my friends of course don't reply, and overall, nothing has worked. (Except for overdosing on OTC meds. My liver must be failing.)
I have no friends. Anyone I've met, once they got to know what kind of person I was, left me. They refuse any contact with me. Borderline personality I believe is what I have. (Just a self-diagnosis.) Moreover, most of traits written in the Personality disorder "cluster B" applies to me as well.
I've been bulimic since age 15. I'm currently anorexic, which stabilizes my mind because it's one in my short list of coping methods, along with self-injury and suicidal attempts.
I plan to quit college because my poor concentration has gotten worse and can't read anything anymore. It's also hard for me to understand auditory information.
I'm too anxious in public places, so when I'm sitting in class I often become panicked, so many times I "run away" and go home and engage in bulimic behaviors (binge and purge). This was the pattern. I'm now too tired to go through this routine. I curse myself for lacking self-control. I'm a lazy pig.
But education doesn't seem to matter anymore. I have numerous health problems partially because of the dysfunctional family I was raised in. For example, my spine became acutely curved at 13, and at 18 I was finally able to have a surgery to correct it. But it was too late I think. I'm going to die soon from liver illness or something. I was abused in every way and it just showed itself in my spine.
I swear the panic and fear is worse than death. Does anyone know how to die without pain? I don't want anything from life any more. No one loves me, I swear.
Or, does anyone know how to stop being so anxious without meds? Like holistic dietary supplements? Note that my panic is intense. I hate therapies. They don't really know. I can't afford inpatient programs. Life is awful.