improve yourself
Find new hobbies, new interests, so on and so forth.. Find out all the wonderful and bad things about yourself and stop worrying about making friends. Friends will come and go.. Yeah it would be nice to have a few friends to talk to or hang out with and share things with, but the fact is, most friends are friends for the moment and not a lifetime.
Some friends move away for college, work, careers, love, for the heck of it and so on. You might do those same things.
Maybe one day years later you get in touch with them, but the sad fact is, yeah you might still have a connection but you really aren't friends anymore....
I have a few friends whom I speak to or see once or twice a year. While I still consider them my friends, the fact is, we really don't know much about each other anymore. It's been like 7 years since we hung out all the time, spoke frequently, shared interests and hopes and ideas.
As you get older, the sad fact is, most of your friends, even good ones, you really don't know any more.
Kids become important. Aging parents, nephews, neices, wives, husbands, jobs, so on and so forth become everything to you or them.
Yeah maybe you speak once in a while, but the fact is, as you get older, it's often more about, "remember back when we were kids or college kids or whatever" instead of lets hang out tonight.
Yeah some people do have friends like that, but sometimes thats more sad than good because it means nobody really did anything with their lives.
In today's world many people move because of jobs, school, loves, and so on and rarely is the case where everybody you once knew in high school or college still lives in the same town or county when your 40.