No friends

sugaryberries

Well-known member
I think you should make friends with girls then. But you should probably at least try to befriend a guy because there are things guys go through that they could better relate to a guy with.
 

Ayla

Well-known member
I know a guy who has very few guy friends (if any anymore). he's awesome. I think a lot of girls like a guy who hangs out with girls...seems win/win to me.
 

LittleMissScareAll

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I'm a girl with no friends. Girls don't seem to like me at all[except some of them wanting to copy my clothes or hair or something], so I haven't had any female friends in forever. I had only female friends when I was a kid, then as I got older I had NO friends, then I made a few friends of both genders, then I had all guy friends(what little I did have), and now I have no friends again. I figure I might as well stick with having none since people end up hating me anyway. The last girl I really talked to was my now-ex-boyfriend's best friend's girlfriend...and I didn't feel like she liked me. She'd always say little things that made me feel stupid...which makes her no different than anyone else I've ever met in my life, really.
 

reguilete

Member
littlemissscareall maybe you just havent found anyone who relates to you and respects you but i bet theres someone out there
 

Silentnoise

Member
Its funny because the guy friends ive had gossip and smack talk more then girls i know.. so i tend to stick to female friends.. i dont have tons but their great to talk to when im stressed / depressed.
 

luckie

Member
I havent got any friends. The ones ive had have said they d get in touch with me but they never did. So i gave up. Life is bad enough without them dragging me down as well. :x :(
 

bimbo45

Well-known member
luckie said:
I havent got any friends. The ones ive had have said they d get in touch with me but they never did. So i gave up. Life is bad enough without them dragging me down as well. :x :(
I haven't got any friends either. I am slightly disabled aswell. So i have joined other sites and when i answer there profiles they never reply. I really don't know what to do for the best. If i got dragged down it would be probably for the best
 

The_Crusader

Active member
I don't have any friends either. It's so hard because I've always had friends growing up but with SP I have 0. Now I don't know how to regain friendships as most of my old mates have moved away and moved on with their lives. :(

For anyone who has no friends you have a friend in me! Ok, that sounded so corny. :p
 

Danska

Member
i had loads of friends but lost trust in them they all treated me like and outcast most people tend to hate me also when they get to know me if they get that close.
 
Just thought I'd join in with the no friends group, I've always been socially isolated except for a few short periods in my life, which if I analyze them I feel I was being used.

I do have a kinda friend who also lives in social isolation, we do meet up a few times a year, we have known eachother for 18+ years, and go for a drink in which we sit in the corner of the quietest pub and only talk to each other.

Its just so hard to meet people and make friends when your a depressed, shy nerd.
 

thequietone

Well-known member
I have perhaps two friends outside my family, but I don't really know if they consider me a friend, or just some left-over appendage of their past. I feel more alone around them than when I am actually alone, isn't that weird?
 

thequietone

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behindcloseddoors said:
I do have a kinda friend who also lives in social isolation, we do meet up a few times a year, we have known eachother for 18+ years, and go for a drink in which we sit in the corner of the quietest pub and only talk to each other.

This sounds perfect to me! Someone who is just the same as you, getting together to do something low key. No pressure.......or, at least, not too much pressure. :)
 
I feel more alone around them than when I am actually alone, isn't that weird?

Nah thats not wierd I never feel more alone when around people, what the eye doesn't see the heart doesn't grieve.

(still haven't figured out how to use the quote thingy yet)[/code]
 

kima

Member
Can I join the no-friends club too?! :( Used to have lots of acquaintances before SP, but never really liked getting too close to anyone. Now I don't even have that, but at least I get on well with my family, so they're my friends (unhealthy and all as that is :roll: )
 

thequietone

Well-known member
kima said:
Can I join the no-friends club too?! :( Used to have lots of acquaintances before SP, but never really liked getting too close to anyone. Now I don't even have that, but at least I get on well with my family, so they're my friends (unhealthy and all as that is :roll: )

My family are my friends too, kima. I'm grateful to be getting along with them (for the most part) because some people don't have anybody. The lonliness you feel when you don't have a single person in the world is simply crushing and unnatural for humans to feel. I've tried denying this fact for a long time, but...Humans are social animals.
 
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