Hey everyone. I am new to this group. I am 21/f/KS (USA). I have never been diagnosed with SAD or GAD but I know there is something wrong with my thinking. I have been "shy" my entire life, but since I was 16 I have been pretending to be normal. Now I am starting to be open about my social anxiety and no one really seems to understand. This is a real disease. On the other hand, if I told people I had cancer or something physical like that I wouldn't get comments like "Oh just calm down. Stop thinking. It's not a big deal."
I'm also confused because I don't know if I have just SAD or GAD (general anxiety). I get a serious physical reaction when I have to give speeches or perform in public. I know I avoid many social situations or just feel very anxious when I know I have to do anything social. I tend to worry a lot about something happening to me or one of my family member's, about money, about my future. I don't know how severe those are though, so I'm not sure if I have GAD also.
I recently quit a very good paying (well for a student) customer service job because I would get so down about every complaint. I would dread going to work.
Anybody else have a fear of this kind of negativity?
Thanks for listening.
I'm also confused because I don't know if I have just SAD or GAD (general anxiety). I get a serious physical reaction when I have to give speeches or perform in public. I know I avoid many social situations or just feel very anxious when I know I have to do anything social. I tend to worry a lot about something happening to me or one of my family member's, about money, about my future. I don't know how severe those are though, so I'm not sure if I have GAD also.
I recently quit a very good paying (well for a student) customer service job because I would get so down about every complaint. I would dread going to work.
Anybody else have a fear of this kind of negativity?
Thanks for listening.