My rant about malicious pricks!

[Ads7800]

I don't get it! I've entered my second year of college (I'm studying the last year of highschool because I didn't finish it when I was there) and even though I should realise that those who do laugh at me are not very nice, I still find myself wondering why I am considered a loser. But I'm not a loser! I'm a dedicated student who asks questions, corrects teachers when they're wrong, does very well in class and chooses to hang out with the geeks because the geek clique is by far less judgmental.
So what the fuck!? I think I'm seen as weird in my class for not wanting to socialise with the 'cool' kids. Laughter is all around. No! I'm not being paranoid; I can see the smirks and can hear the laughter. How am I meant to deal with this? Everday I put on a face of courage, of determination. But it's all bullshit. Deep down I want to go crazy! I want to face them and say, 'Hey, what's up your arse? So I'm different and don't socialise as much as you. What's so fuckin' funny about that? How can you laugh at a person who is obviously in a bad state right now? Do you laugh at people in wheelchairs because they can't walk? Do you criticise the blind because they can't see? No! So why am I your emotional punching bag for all your fucked up insecurities?
Shit, I am so upset right now (I think the profanities make that quite clear). It's just so difficult. I have social phobia and I'm trying to ace my exams. Shit! Talk about stress! Not only do I have tests to contend with (tests at the equivalent of the American SA-fuckin'-T's), but I also have people who think it's okay to take away the dignity of another individual to deal with!
Oh boy, this is my first true rant on this forum and I hope the swearing is not too offensive for you all. I'm just so mad right now!

 

[GettingThere]

What "little " people think is not important. I know that that is easier to say than to put to use but hey, who (aside from you) will even remember what such losers thought or said in a year or two's time? - its just not worth it.

 

[RoboLobster]

Pick out one of the scrawny weak looking ones in their group, wait until he's alone and beat the crap out of him. If they continue to ridicule you find out where they live, and stand outside their door at 3 o' clock in the morning and threaten them to a knife fight on the lawn.

*Drumroll* Now for a serious reply, don't let them get to you. They're idiots/dumbasses/losers/shitheads, ignore them. Don't back down though, don't let them push you around. If you show them what they're doing is getting to you, they'll probably keep doing it. If they see that you're ignoring them they'll probably get frustrated and move on to the next person and leave you alone, or in the worse case they'll probably keep at it and try to tick you off.

 

[annie]

Hi Ads7800

Oh boy I can feel your frustration and anger through your post mate.

Listen you can just ignore them and hope for the best that they just piss off or why don't you just look them straight in the face and say "Whats up your arse? You got a problem with me? Well thats your problem" and tell them to F*** off.

Maybe if you are assertive or seem more aggressive they won't bother you anymore.


Take care

annie

 

[Anonymous]

hye i feel your pain but correcting teachers ?
thats just asking for iit.......

 

[Chilling_Echo]

Pick out one of the scrawny weak looking ones in their group, wait until he's alone and beat the crap out of him. If they continue to ridicule you find out where they live, and stand outside their door at 3 o' clock in the morning and threaten them to a knife fight on the lawn.

LMAO

but anyways, i have nothing but sympathy for you, at my univerisity, we're known to be a party school. well, little ole me likes to actually go to uni for it's intended purpose - like to study? and learn? so i have a hard time connecting with anyone. but i dont' get harassed, here it's hard for anyone to even know who you are. as like everyone else, i agree with just telling them to fuck off, they have no right to ridicule you like that. but i also would suggest changing schools, i don't know how many are in your area, but credits can transfer so it's not like it's a waste of money and even though toughing it out is the number one thing to do, if you hate the environment that you're in, you're not going to do as well. decide what's best for you! sorry you're going through all that shit, and good luck to ya

 

[Ads7800]

hye i feel your pain but correcting teachers ?
thats just asking for iit.......

Well, I refuse to be anyone but myself. I will continue to make sure the teachers aren't giving me a second rate education. And how in all reality is making sure a teacher is right so I can get the most out of my lesson asking for abuse? No one should censor themselves out of fear.

 

[Anonymous]

well that just seems arrogant and patronising to me, sorry. Of course the kids are gonna make fun if you correct the teacher because thats what kids do. No one likes cocky self important people.[/quote]

 

[Ads7800]

Arrogant, What? Do you understand at all? I thought social phobics were on this forum, not people looking to drag down others for just being themselves. Arrogant! You must be kidding! You should be happy for me that I can talk aloud in class at all!
If I was arrogant I'd be acting like that geeky girl in 'Never Been Kissed'. You know, that girl who went around saying things like, 'Oh sorry, I forgot you don't know anything, do you?' I don't act in this way, and for some reason you seem to think I'm arrogant! I don't remember saying a negative thing about anyone's intelligence what-so-ever. And I sure as hell don't remember saying that I was the greatest mind in the world.
And I'm not always correcting teachers! If a teacher mispells a word on the board, I don't care! It doesn't concern me. And I'm not the only one who does it. Even the 'it' crowd will sometimes say, 'Oh sir, you miss spelt schedule' or something like that.
God, how am I being self-important. I just want to make sure everything's okay. And fuck the kids. They can kiss my arse if they want to laugh. I want to express myself, how does that make me cocky or arrogant? Cocky and arrogant people are in love with themselves. They think they know it all and that noone could possibly be better than them. This is so far away from my personality. I hate myself and do not think I'm better than any of my class peers. Maybe if you actually met me you would see that I am aware that I don't know it all. In fact a few of the cool kids are smarter than me by a mile and I respect that. I kinda like them and wish I could talk to them because we seem to have the same opinion on things, but alas.
I think you need to really settle down and stop judging people you haven't even met based on words that don't even go with what you are concluding (okay I shouldn't have said second rate education, that sounds a bit uppity). We don't like being judged, so why are you doing it to others and hurting their feelings in the process?

 

[Anonymous]

Being 6ft 4 and alot bigger than alot of kids when i was at school i just kicked fuck out of them if they ever took the piss and then i heared no more.

That is wrong and is not advise but it gets the job done. The thing with people they pick on others they know wont fight back or look invulnerable not saying your either of these but thats just ussualy the case, one good kick it the nuts or a punch on the nose everynow and then and they wont bother you. In some cases they will respect you for standing up for yourself. Or depending how small or big you are get yourself owned and come back with a bat for some revenge

its a bit harsh i know flame all u want but if someone pisses me off i just see red , being ignorant just lets them win bassically your anoyed inside and your not doing anything about it.

 

[Anonymous]

I took every chance i got too correct teachers. They ussualy look down on students and think there so smart, correcting them and letting them know about it really pisses them off