TAMPA-BAY
Well-known member
I have been single most if not all of my life; so I think it qualifies me as an expert :biggrin: The trick is to have these unconcious beliefs or invisible rules to live by. Like lets say I see this hot chick that i am intrested in. I like to not make any eye contack or gestures or do anything to let her know i am intrested. Another little trick i use is to ignore any signs that she migh actualy be intrested in meeting me. If she shows intrest just blow it off and say that there is probaly some one behind me or that she realy has a friend she wants to hook me up with. (Is everyone writing this down?)
If I'am dealing with the rare person who refuse to be turned off by my outer shell then I milk the clock (stall-stall-stall) untill they meet another person and forget about me. If these methods fail then I am screwed because it means that my (shoulds)*(must)and (oughts) statements are outdated and i will have to make a new list of (oughts/should/and must)statements... (invisible strings that hold us back in life)
Warning dont try this your self because I only make it look easy. This is not taught in schools or books. It takes a lot of hard work to maintain isolation. Just ask all the couples you know. Staying single aint as easy as it looks.
Oh I forgot something else. I make sure not to google books like (prisoners of belief) If you do you will start to cure your anxiety and who wants that? So remember not to go to amazon.com and look for books like (prisoners of beliefs). Dont go and do that.
If I'am dealing with the rare person who refuse to be turned off by my outer shell then I milk the clock (stall-stall-stall) untill they meet another person and forget about me. If these methods fail then I am screwed because it means that my (shoulds)*(must)and (oughts) statements are outdated and i will have to make a new list of (oughts/should/and must)statements... (invisible strings that hold us back in life)
Warning dont try this your self because I only make it look easy. This is not taught in schools or books. It takes a lot of hard work to maintain isolation. Just ask all the couples you know. Staying single aint as easy as it looks.
Oh I forgot something else. I make sure not to google books like (prisoners of belief) If you do you will start to cure your anxiety and who wants that? So remember not to go to amazon.com and look for books like (prisoners of beliefs). Dont go and do that.