tommydog
Well-known member
hi everyone
id like to suggest that one of the most powerful ways to help yourself is to surround yourself by the people you want to be like.
its hard when your an sp'r to go and hang around with larger than life people, but believe me they will pull you up. you are who your friends are, thats what they say, and thats what iv only started accepting recently.
even if you dont know how to make friends .. you can still make an effort to be in places they are you know, just bieng surrounded by the right types of people can help.
part of the reason i think i developed sp, aside from my childhood, and aside from drugs as a teenager, is that my crowd were all people with negative attitudes, non achievers, most of them were probly borderline sp'rs themselves.
now that im with happy, well adjusted, and very very confident people .. how can i put it ... they are pulling me up simple as that.
your mental picture of whats normal, and what your boundaries are, can change dramatically
id like to suggest that one of the most powerful ways to help yourself is to surround yourself by the people you want to be like.
its hard when your an sp'r to go and hang around with larger than life people, but believe me they will pull you up. you are who your friends are, thats what they say, and thats what iv only started accepting recently.
even if you dont know how to make friends .. you can still make an effort to be in places they are you know, just bieng surrounded by the right types of people can help.
part of the reason i think i developed sp, aside from my childhood, and aside from drugs as a teenager, is that my crowd were all people with negative attitudes, non achievers, most of them were probly borderline sp'rs themselves.
now that im with happy, well adjusted, and very very confident people .. how can i put it ... they are pulling me up simple as that.
your mental picture of whats normal, and what your boundaries are, can change dramatically