my family

[romeno82]

My family is:

overprotective

no privacy as a child

threated me like i was unskillful and ungainly as a child

alot of (talk) taboos

were always ridiculed when lament, cry

couldnt swear, nor buy "evil"-toys

mam and dad always fighted before me and my brothers

my mother is a jehovas witnesser:
repression of sexuality,egoism,aggressivity(wich i adopt in me)
she´s a saint

my dad is always
focusing and complaining about success of others
perfectionist, hates being ridiculed or being maked fun of
very strong personality

and someone wonders that i have SP

 

[iamantisocial]

My family is:

overprotective

no privacy as a child

threated me like i was unskillful and ungainly as a child

alot of (talk) taboos

were always ridiculed when lament, cry

couldnt swear, nor buy "evil"-toys


my mother is a jehovas witnesses:
repression of sexuality,egoism,aggressivity(wich i adopt in me)
she´s a saint

my dad is always
focusing and complaining about success of others
perfectionist, hates being ridiculed or being maked fun of
very strong personality

and someone wonders that i have SP

My family has the same characteristics... more or less. And ironically, in my family's case... just switch around your mom and dad and thats it. (mom is just too much of a bitch who gets in your face, and dad is a religious fanatic)

Yes it does cause SP. Those circumstances you have now.

However... if you continuously put the blame on an outside force for your own misfortune (SP in this case), you will not be able to progress and move forward.

That was my mentality before.

I have SP BECAUSE OF parents, been a bullied kid, etc... nobody loves me, etc... etc... etc...

That set me back TWO FUCKING YEARS and I regret it deeply. Without the setback, I'd be miles away now.

 

[romeno82]

no i wont blame my family, at leats not for a long time and tell them in the face this things. cos they really tought they were doing good to me. but have alot of sadness in me and i will give me time to be sad about that. then i will go forward