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[LittleMissScareAll]

I know I'll never get married. I can't even be in a relationship with somebody over a few short months, so how could I ever live with someone for years & years until one of us died?
I'm not even going to try to be in a relationship or be friends with anyone anymore unless they have social phobia & depression, like me. Outgoing, happy people are not worth my time.

 

[GIOLANDA]

I need a man,I feel it,but I can't. I reject everybody interested. I don't want to,but it always happens due to my introvert personality.

Do you reject them because you don't allow yourself to get closer to them...or because you are too picky? I'm kind of the same way, rejecting the people interested, but it is because I have such high expectations .... I guess I'm shallow. I will only date a girl if I have a major crush on her, otherwise I'm not into it. And it just so happens that I can never get the one I want.

Well,I don't mind rejecting people I've no feelings for,but the bad thing is that I also reject people that interest me,because as you've said I don't get close to them. It's a really bad situation,recently I've rejected sb I loved,due to these ridiculous fears and insecurity. I feel sad.

 

[bamboo]

marriage outa the question

marriage is outa the question for me. bloody hell i can't even speak to girls so how the fuck am i suposed to get married.



But sure i would like to in the back of my mind iuf i didn't have this damn SA prblm

 

[kaspersrad]

Well,I don't mind rejecting people I've no feelings for,but the bad thing is that I also reject people that interest me,because as you've said I don't get close to them. It's a really bad situation,recently I've rejected sb I loved,due to these ridiculous fears and insecurity. I feel sad.

Do you mean rejecting as in, not making a move or flat out saying, "I don't like you..." ?? do you flirt with these people you fancy? its kinda sucky to like someone who has no idea you like them, especially if they are interested back!! talk about mixed signals.

an insecurity i have in the whole dating department has always been not knowing if they're "interested" or not. if it turns out they do - thats the green light. If a guys is interested in you, that's just it... he wants you! Dont let love slip away man! you may have to work at it, but who doesnt work through tough times in relationships? ive always believed that if you dont like the way things are, then you should change them. dont let love slip away!

 

[GIOLANDA]

Well,I don't mind rejecting people I've no feelings for,but the bad thing is that I also reject people that interest me,because as you've said I don't get close to them. It's a really bad situation,recently I've rejected sb I loved,due to these ridiculous fears and insecurity. I feel sad.

Do you mean rejecting as in, not making a move or flat out saying, "I don't like you..." ?? do you flirt with these people you fancy? its kinda sucky to like someone who has no idea you like them, especially if they are interested back!! talk about mixed signals.

an insecurity i have in the whole dating department has always been not knowing if they're "interested" or not. if it turns out they do - thats the green light. If a guys is interested in you, that's just it... he wants you! Dont let love slip away man! you may have to work at it, but who doesnt work through tough times in relationships? ive always believed that if you dont like the way things are, then you should change them. dont let love slip away!

That's the problem,I flirt in the beginning,but I can't go on,I stop when they're really interested. It's crazy,I know.I appreciate your advice,if only I could change but I think I can't.

 

[kaspersrad]

Do you reject them because you don't allow yourself to get closer to them...or because you are too picky? I'm kind of the same way, rejecting the people interested, but it is because I have such high expectations .... I guess I'm shallow. I will only date a girl if I have a major crush on her, otherwise I'm not into it. And it just so happens that I can never get the one I want.

That is EXACTLY how I am. Why is it we can never get the one we want?

 

[Moonie]

The odd thing is, I never really was interested in marriage. I have thought about it, but I really don't see myself caring one or or another. The idea of finding a life partner appeals to me, but something about the marriage ceremony does not.

I can't tell if I will get married or not someday. I guess I will have to see where life leads me. I am sure my chances of marriage are decreasing, anyhow. I am 25, but I feel so tired and dead, that it will probably be hard for me to find a lasting relationship..

 

[IWouldPreferNotTo]

I'm 32 and will probably never get married. I've never been in a long-term relationship, and even then I've only been out with 5 girls in my entire life. I'm not unattractive or anything and, to be fair, I've had a lot of other opportunities to date but was too shy to pursue them. In my 20s, the idea of spending the rest of my life alone terrified me, but now it doesn't bother me that much. Guess I've accepted it. There are advantages of being alone- you do what you want, when you want. One big thing I do worry about is as you get older, you friends all marry off and no only are you not married, you have no friends left, either!