Man i wish i had a friend/girlfriend

[rko74]

I wish i had a firned/girlfriend i could be totally at ease with and could tell them what i feel etc.My social inneptness prevents me in alot of ways from achieving this, i worry my voice will shake and people will see im really uncomfortable.How will a girl like you if you are uncomortable?

In actuality im a real nice guy and have a terribly good sense of humor but when i encounter situations where im out of my element i clam up.I hope this class im going to do in march will help me.A big part of me wants to sit at home and stay in my comfort zone and another part of me wants to go out and meet people or live some sort of a life.Im gonna have a life if i gotta go threw this social pain one way or another.I gotta do it.

 

[SilentOutlaw]

YOU CAN DO IT!

 

[GIOLANDA]

Hello!

I understand you completely,cause I'm just like you! Someday I wrote to this site that I have problems with the opposite sex due to my SA. My problem is that I stop every time that sb is interested,I'm so insecure! I also want to stay at home but I like going out too and I don't know what to do! I'm just trying to cope with all this,you must try too,as you have decided. Greetings and good luck! :wink:

 

[Zain]

I'm going through pretty much the same thing, It's my first year of college and I'm living at the student residence i'm having a very hard time adjusting. I just feel so alone and isolated. I've always been very shy and introverted. Part of me really wants to go out and meet people while the other half just wants to sit in my room which is sorta my "safe zone" So yeah, I'm going through exactly the same thing. I've never had a gf never even been kissed. my roomate on the other hand has a new girl in his room pratically every single night. It's very depressing. I'm not ugly (atleast i dont think so) but I'm very inexperienced and very shy

 

[Zain]

I'm going through pretty much the same thing, It's my first year of college and I'm living at the student residence i'm having a very hard time adjusting. I just feel so alone and isolated. I've always been very shy and introverted. Part of me really wants to go out and meet people while the other half just wants to sit in my room which is sorta my "safe zone" So yeah, I'm going through exactly the same thing. I dont have a gf my roomate on the other hand has a new girl in his room pratically every single night. It's very depressing. I'm not ugly (atleast i dont think so) but I'm inexperienced and very shy