JJB
Active member
Hello friends,
I seek wisdom, for I seek advice on what is probably the one difect I have that drives me mad the most. It concerns making decisions, beating fear and stopping yourself from contemplating the worst results of any given situation. Let me explain a little.
So I'm looking to volunteer with a charity that's rather important to me, Arthritis Care. It's nothing big or important (it is to me I guess). But for some reason I can't bring myself to submit a form for the volunteer place. I'm not sure if it's a lack of guts, or fear that something will inevitably go bad. For as long as I can remember I've always calculated situations out in my head. I guess you could see it as an over active human instinct of danger. Trouble is I see bad results of situations in everything. Its a bad habit to expect the worst in everything. I have an odd thing to in that for some reason, I believe that with goodness must come badness to balance things out. So say I win a tenner on the lottery, I'm already thinking what bad might happen, will I suffer a painful flare up or receive bad news etc.
Anyway, I'm sick of it. So looking for advice and possible external sources of help and insight to beat this. It's pathetic really, why can't I be brave enough. It's with a lot of things in life, even buying simple items at a checkout causes me to panic a little.
Would appreciate any help, and thank you. Hope you are all well.
I seek wisdom, for I seek advice on what is probably the one difect I have that drives me mad the most. It concerns making decisions, beating fear and stopping yourself from contemplating the worst results of any given situation. Let me explain a little.
So I'm looking to volunteer with a charity that's rather important to me, Arthritis Care. It's nothing big or important (it is to me I guess). But for some reason I can't bring myself to submit a form for the volunteer place. I'm not sure if it's a lack of guts, or fear that something will inevitably go bad. For as long as I can remember I've always calculated situations out in my head. I guess you could see it as an over active human instinct of danger. Trouble is I see bad results of situations in everything. Its a bad habit to expect the worst in everything. I have an odd thing to in that for some reason, I believe that with goodness must come badness to balance things out. So say I win a tenner on the lottery, I'm already thinking what bad might happen, will I suffer a painful flare up or receive bad news etc.
Anyway, I'm sick of it. So looking for advice and possible external sources of help and insight to beat this. It's pathetic really, why can't I be brave enough. It's with a lot of things in life, even buying simple items at a checkout causes me to panic a little.
Would appreciate any help, and thank you. Hope you are all well.
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