Love sick part 2, NEED HELP!

[CR.O]

Have you ever trapped in the same love ?
even you already have a boy friend?or girlfriend?
And you being a stalker .

When i was in a junior high school i met some one at the school canteen.
I didn't know where he got my phone number. He called me and soon we got closer and we're in a relation ship.
He's my first love.
To make it simple , our story was like alicia keys song MY BOO
hha
My mom and dad didn't argue with it, so they're trying to seperate us in every way.
But i still stand with him.
Until he went to another country without any news.
I got his text but it's too late.

3 years ago me and him almost get back again, but i choosed my boy friend then him.
then Now we're contact again. I felt wrong when i choosed my bf so I broke up with him.
it's so sad.
but i didn't want to loose him again.
He asked me to go karaoke, i said yes
He asked me to dinner, i said yes
He asked me to skyping, i said yes
All the things that i did , i never think twice because that was him who asking. Am i too stupid?
I now that i have no much time because he want to studied in China. So i think i should take my time with him. He's my priority now.
BUt i think his heart is not like mine.
He didn't love me
what should I do? it's been 7 years, and all i feel 'sthe same.
even he always make me angry at the end, dissapointed me...
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[upndwn]

How harsh it may sound, you should try to move on. Clearly he does not share your affection. It is hard to love someone and not be loved back, but don't let it become an obsession, that will serve neither of you any good. Focus on other aspects of your life and eventually you will get over him. I hope you find a way to move on. Good luck to you.

 

[TheSanctuarian]

*IM GOING TO BE BLUNT ALERT*

Its a lost cause, you are chasing shadows and your only going to get hurt, probably more than once. you can still be friends, but you need to make it clear to yourself that nothing is going to happen between you both.

I was stuck in limbo for a while myself, giving her up was the best decision I had ever made, and I have never looked back, yes I still love her, but I accepted that she will never love me back.

 

[twiggle]

BUt i think his heart is not like mine.
He didn't love me
what should I do? it's been 7 years, and all i feel 'sthe same.
even he always make me angry at the end, dissapointed me...
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I think, with these final sentences, you've more or less determined your answer. It can take a lot of guts to decide to give up on somebody you have strong feelings for but you shouldn't have to be starting the race from yards behind the start line, so to speak.
Look forward, move on, and find the person who doesn't leave you wondering whether its real or not.
Besides, ever heard the saying, "I don't miss you, I just miss the person I thought you were?"