LIFE IS SO UNFAIR AND UNJUST

[monkeyisland90]

Life is unfair and i'll explain some personal points... But it doesn't mean i'm going to start stomping my feet and get bitter about it... i feel everything happens for a reason and i'm sure things will be very bright... but anyways here is some examples i like to share..

this is just a comparison with few people that i used to or still hang around with that doesn't suffer from SA..

ME.. I'm at school trying to learn and study really hard with no short cuts (cheating) and get good grades.. but the SA made me dropout due to the anxiety building up where i could not function no more.. and stuck working at home doing screenprinting, designing, (i prefer working outside of home but this sa prevents me...I try to avoid making excuses but that's how it is at the moment.)

FRIEND..... He goes out socializing, partying, playing sports, and relaxing and cheats his way (he told me he had some operation that worked for him and almost got caught but didn't ).. and graduates then gets a job as a property manager in real estate..

One other random unfairness

playing tennis with this one guy i somewhat know and this random guy comes and asks if he can hit with us.. I'm like yeah lets do it and try to be friendly and stuff but my anxiety symptoms shows someone who looks mad and unfriendly... while the other guy i play tennis with is telling me behind his back that he is a wierd freak and lives in some halfway house but can put on a straight face and says i can't hit with you yet but you can hit with him (meaning me).. and since he has this straight face the guy i'm hitting with now starts talking with the guy who has no interest at him whatsoever and I'm thinking to myself man i honestly have no issue with you but you're talking to someone who could care less of you... Which brings me to the point that if anyone is good actor (speak and behave well) and can conceal there motives you can go far in this life... but i also believe truth will comeout and acting won't cover it any longer...

I have other experiences also but i don't want to sit here and complain and stay bitter... cause I know there LIGHT at end of the tunnel..


Now i don't like to play the victim role and say me this me that.. but sometimes when things aren't fair I get bit mad and cannot comprehend it at all.. it's not really an envy matter as there's always someone better then you at all things but life aint fair... can i get a witness? lol

 

[no1]

I think we may live in an opposite world. We do good things, we work towards our goals, and it gets us nowhere. Some other person does nothing, or just acts like he/she does something and gets everything. Why?

Who knows.

Maybe it's not such a good idea to just think the world is full of crap like I usually do because it just might make it worse you know!??????????????????????

 

[faithnomore]

I know exactly how that feels. when you see wasters that can get anything they want in life, while genuine hard working nice people suffer.

Its all about popularity i swear! It seems that if you are popular you can get anything you want, no matter how crappy you are.

 

[Naniwazu]

I agree with you. Welcome to the real world, but that's the way it is...the stuff about being good and bad kind of reminds me of a story I read by Twain (I think!) about a good and bad boy. The good boy is a Sunday school kid who does everything by the book, and ends up miserable and drowns, while the bad boy cheats his way through life and gets everything...don't know what the moral is, but yeah, the bad people get the good and vice versa, it seems.

 

[unwantedoutcast]

yep, life sucks and then you die

 

[freestylemonster]

yep, life sucks and then you die

No way man! I remember reading somewhere something that Jesus said (I'm sorry if I offend anybody) it was something like "Look at the amount of love you get. That's the amount of love you give". The people who are on this forum have trouble showing their love for other people, and therefore we don't get as much love in return as we think we should be getting. That's why we think life sucks. What goes around comes around. We're not passing anything around, so we're not getting anything in return.

 

[unwantedoutcast]

yep, life sucks and then you die

No way man! I remember reading somewhere something that Jesus said (I'm sorry if I offend anybody) it was something like "Look at the amount of love you get. That's the amount of love you give". The people who are on this forum have trouble showing their love for other people, and therefore we don't get as much love in return as we think we should be getting. That's why we think life sucks. What goes around comes around. We're not passing anything around, so we're not getting anything in return.

that is a point of view