Laziness is taking over my life

[SkyBlue]

I've been home for 4 months now trying to get over my SA or atleast work on it... However I've been so lazy I can't seem to get anything done, it seems the longer you go without doing anything the more lazy you get and it's hard to get self motivated! I can't even motivate myself to get up earlier than 12 in the afternoon, (i hate waking up early) has this happened to anyone?

 

[coyote]

don't judge yourself too harshly

it could very well be you're not "lazy"

you could be suffering from depression

 

[da_illest101]

don't judge yourself too harshly

it could very well be you're not "lazy"

you could be suffering from depression

I agree with what you said. When I'm depressed I really but really don't do anything and nothing matters.

when i'm not depressed I'm still very lazy ( that's just the way i'm) but I have some control over it.

If you don't think you are depressed you need to cut off the routine the hardway ( by doing something else out of nowhere)

 

[bigcat1967]

I'm like that sometime. However, it's more like I don't have the time.

 

[SkyBlue]

don't judge yourself too harshly

it could very well be you're not "lazy"

you could be suffering from depression

i've always been lazy though it just gets worse when you've gone so long without any real type of commitment... And i love sleeping late wayyy to much :/

 

[MrJones]

I think I feel no motivation anymore, seems like the only thing I can do (because I must) is going to college... let's see if this year is better, I have to do something... almost 3 months doing nothing and so many years without motivation at all, or even the sense of "wanting" something.

And yeah, as others said, maybe you're depressed. Not me, though, it's impossible to be depressed for so long, I'm just lazy.

i've always been lazy though it just gets worse when you've gone so long without any real type of commitment...

I'm the same. I never liked to sleep too much, though. I just spend all day doing nothing. Actually, people say I need to sleep more, because I'm always tired lol

 

[FountainandFairfax]

I've been this way for quite some time too. Getting motivated to do anything seems like a daunting task, and everything seems hopeless. I sleep a lot, and I hate having to do anything that's required of me. If I know that I have to be somewhere at some certain time in the future, I'll dread it like the plague for days just out of sheer resentment for having to do something.

 

[coyote]

i really don't feel like doing much of anything, at all

 

[SkyBlue]

I think I feel no motivation anymore, seems like the only thing I can do (because I must) is going to college... let's see if this year is better, I have to do something... almost 3 months doing nothing and so many years without motivation at all, or even the sense of "wanting" something.

yeah i feel i've lost the sence of even wanting something as well, because wanting something would actually require doing something... at least your going to college and accomplishing something positive! you should be proud of yourself for that.

 

[coyote]

most of my life there was always something "over the horizon"

some "next thing" that kept me going even when things looked bleak in the present

suddenly, i find myself without any goals or dreams for the future

and i'm not sure what to do with myself, or even why

so i just do the very least i can get by with to make it through each day

constantly worried that my inattention, avoidance, and neglect will catch up to me

and yet i still can't seem to care enough to motivate myself

 

[MrJones]

yeah i feel i've lost the sence of even wanting something as well, because wanting something would actually require doing something... at least your going to college and accomplishing something positive! you should be proud of yourself for that.

Thanks, I guess that while I'm still in here it's fine. Anyway it's been too many years since the last time I went out there to do something just because I wanted to, without the "must do it". And I have no idea what to do after finishing college.

most of my life there was always something "over the horizon"

some "next thing" that kept me going even when things looked bleak in the present

suddenly, i find myself without any goals or dreams for the future

and i'm not sure what to do with myself, or even why

so i just do the very least i can get by with to make it through each day

constantly worried that my inattention, avoidance, and neglect will catch up to me

and yet i still can't seem to care enough to motivate myself

Hang in there coyote, as long as you have something that makes you live everyday a little more you will be fine, and as you had that "next thing" maybe one day you'll find another one, there's still hope. There is always hope. And maybe one day we all will find something too.

 

[MrTimid&Shy]

I've been home for 4 months now trying to get over my SA or atleast work on it... However I've been so lazy I can't seem to get anything done, it seems the longer you go without doing anything the more lazy you get and it's hard to get self motivated! I can't even motivate myself to get up earlier than 12 in the afternoon, (i hate waking up early) has this happened to anyone?

yes. i deal with this everyday.