My family know that I don't like hugging, but I've never told them why. My problem is only with hugging females in the family. I don't like having their breasts against me, as to me it is sexual. Reason doesn't change my mind. My psychologist didn't think this is OCD, but I still think it is. She thought if it was OCD I would get worried about gay thoughts when hugging guys, but I don't see why that would be necessary.