Is there anybody with this problem?

[lonley]

I've been experiencing it for more then two years now. It is something that I understand, but am unable to deal with effectively. It is the difficulty to maintain eye contact while conversing with others. Usually my thinking drifts from paying attention to the conversation into concentrating on where should I look at there face. It's really annoying and sometimes it makes me avoid people just because I'll be unable to have eye contact with them. What is also annoying is that I feel that the person I'm talking to is getting unnecessary tension because of my "looks" that I'm sure do not carry any bad feelings or insinuations.

I like a girl and i know she likes me too but because of this problem i can't go to her because i know i can't do eye contact.

Is there anybody in the world with same problem?

 

[Sad-Kitten]

I just try to look in there eyes as much as possible. The problem for me is when i'm at a restaurant or something and your sitting across from another table and i don't know where to look, it feels odd just staring at strangers like that.