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Is that the run will be chased?
You build a relationship 'is chasing the fleeing' rule is being exaggerated, emotional abuse may be! Medical Park Hospital from the Clinical Psychologist Fatih Demir Sinem; 'to not be victims of emotional abuse, emotional abuse and a variety of reasons were:
• A feeling of uncertainty in the relationship to be excessive, the person's attitude toward you out of the ultra-hard and extremely interested in going to come on the floor, 'emotional abuse' may think.
• giving ambiguous messages, "a nearly a couple of 'one against the' liking 'Similar sentiments are felt may be based on the uncertainty caused concern. After a message giving the exact opposite of the message, creates anxiety and emotional turmoil. Concerns, it will extend the time people think, because what is done and what you try to make sense. Has created uncertainty in the relationship of worry and anger, 'feeling like' thrill 'feelings mixed in with the wrong way,' enjoyment 'can be interpreted in a sense. Closely at this' uncertainty installed 'state, is really his anxiety to your concerned, or the person emotionally is really in front of you ... it is easier to understand the' emotional abuse, think of situations where good must know.
Here I might think of emotional abuse cases:
May have dual personalities
You're also interested in you and you are a person of interest after a while may give the opposite response. In this case, as usual, thinks it's dull and interest will be withdrawn. In case of emotional abuse, the person, with excessive interest income back and forth between extreme indifference. You and the relationship of his message is inconsistent, long-term relationships to live / want to get married-I do not want you, I like-I like the people you do not look like marriage matter, but you can-get married I know that you do not ...
Attention to imaginary people
Emotional abuse in the case, the (imaginary or real) 'others' often on the agenda: income, permanently (you is not similar), like the physical features mentioned in the previous relationship of feelings / memories often brought up (especially positive ones), your previous relationships of your permanent 'an accusation' as the reason to talk about ...
Critics jokingly harassed
Some expressed an interest in the relations may have jokingly criticism, and this is a form of communication. In emotional abuse, criticism and jokes of the 'humiliation' is recognized to be associated with. Sarcastic and degrading remarks to say (when you're alone, or by others), verbal scolding, or to look to, to completely ignore, constantly criticizing ... After that you go with friends or family gatherings often 'beaten up' as and only you feel. You must express your distress in this matter will not interfere in the situation to be repeated.
You will be enjoyable vex
Is lived in relationships of emotional abuse, in the relationship 'enjoyment and pleasure' like (short-term) positive feelings, opposed to the person's mood is determined. He is pleasant, almost no supplies can not do much good remarks, gestures to make your feet off the ground. If you have fun or be depressed, feeling that in the case of 'not to create distress and meaning is important. If you are depressed, it'll be too bothered. Have to be pleasant, even enjoyable if it is significant.
You are guilty of all the negativity
You're in the relationship is 'not at all satisfied', while in your face 'constant anxiety by you are by' will. Her 'emotional reality' as it just 'let it' to achieve 'just to feel like' one of his responsibilities, you 'visionary' to be 'wrong to interpret' are connected. Concerned about the problems in your relationship you always blame your negative feelings and relieve yourself constantly require.
The authorities blindly connect
Emotional harassment, is not easily noticed! 'Excitement' is installed between the negative emotions, 'a short and intense' experience of positive emotions in a sort of 'conditioning' and the relationship creates a 'blind loyalty' in size continues. The role for you, 'waiting for her attention, it must satisfy a good boy' to be a start. When you face the ribbing is going to criticize reach, do not be a certain 'authority' is.
And after notice to
On the basis of the relationship to realize that emotional abuse, often 'shocking' an event occurs. Relatively severe disease, even if not shown the slightest relevance levels 'shocking' may cause a notice. Emotional abuse, exposure to the situation, 'the victim, the victim' but it also must be considered: This type of association pattern than the previous close relationships (family relations) were re-do, in what circumstances such a relationship has happened ... Emotional harassment to notice, in the past, who lived reinterpretation, emotional wounds the least damage to the improvement and the new 'emotional relationship' negative bias in a way closer to prevent personal resources are inadequate where the individual psychological therapy support can be taken.
You build a relationship 'is chasing the fleeing' rule is being exaggerated, emotional abuse may be! Medical Park Hospital from the Clinical Psychologist Fatih Demir Sinem; 'to not be victims of emotional abuse, emotional abuse and a variety of reasons were:
• A feeling of uncertainty in the relationship to be excessive, the person's attitude toward you out of the ultra-hard and extremely interested in going to come on the floor, 'emotional abuse' may think.
• giving ambiguous messages, "a nearly a couple of 'one against the' liking 'Similar sentiments are felt may be based on the uncertainty caused concern. After a message giving the exact opposite of the message, creates anxiety and emotional turmoil. Concerns, it will extend the time people think, because what is done and what you try to make sense. Has created uncertainty in the relationship of worry and anger, 'feeling like' thrill 'feelings mixed in with the wrong way,' enjoyment 'can be interpreted in a sense. Closely at this' uncertainty installed 'state, is really his anxiety to your concerned, or the person emotionally is really in front of you ... it is easier to understand the' emotional abuse, think of situations where good must know.
Here I might think of emotional abuse cases:
May have dual personalities
You're also interested in you and you are a person of interest after a while may give the opposite response. In this case, as usual, thinks it's dull and interest will be withdrawn. In case of emotional abuse, the person, with excessive interest income back and forth between extreme indifference. You and the relationship of his message is inconsistent, long-term relationships to live / want to get married-I do not want you, I like-I like the people you do not look like marriage matter, but you can-get married I know that you do not ...
Attention to imaginary people
Emotional abuse in the case, the (imaginary or real) 'others' often on the agenda: income, permanently (you is not similar), like the physical features mentioned in the previous relationship of feelings / memories often brought up (especially positive ones), your previous relationships of your permanent 'an accusation' as the reason to talk about ...
Critics jokingly harassed
Some expressed an interest in the relations may have jokingly criticism, and this is a form of communication. In emotional abuse, criticism and jokes of the 'humiliation' is recognized to be associated with. Sarcastic and degrading remarks to say (when you're alone, or by others), verbal scolding, or to look to, to completely ignore, constantly criticizing ... After that you go with friends or family gatherings often 'beaten up' as and only you feel. You must express your distress in this matter will not interfere in the situation to be repeated.
You will be enjoyable vex
Is lived in relationships of emotional abuse, in the relationship 'enjoyment and pleasure' like (short-term) positive feelings, opposed to the person's mood is determined. He is pleasant, almost no supplies can not do much good remarks, gestures to make your feet off the ground. If you have fun or be depressed, feeling that in the case of 'not to create distress and meaning is important. If you are depressed, it'll be too bothered. Have to be pleasant, even enjoyable if it is significant.
You are guilty of all the negativity
You're in the relationship is 'not at all satisfied', while in your face 'constant anxiety by you are by' will. Her 'emotional reality' as it just 'let it' to achieve 'just to feel like' one of his responsibilities, you 'visionary' to be 'wrong to interpret' are connected. Concerned about the problems in your relationship you always blame your negative feelings and relieve yourself constantly require.
The authorities blindly connect
Emotional harassment, is not easily noticed! 'Excitement' is installed between the negative emotions, 'a short and intense' experience of positive emotions in a sort of 'conditioning' and the relationship creates a 'blind loyalty' in size continues. The role for you, 'waiting for her attention, it must satisfy a good boy' to be a start. When you face the ribbing is going to criticize reach, do not be a certain 'authority' is.
And after notice to
On the basis of the relationship to realize that emotional abuse, often 'shocking' an event occurs. Relatively severe disease, even if not shown the slightest relevance levels 'shocking' may cause a notice. Emotional abuse, exposure to the situation, 'the victim, the victim' but it also must be considered: This type of association pattern than the previous close relationships (family relations) were re-do, in what circumstances such a relationship has happened ... Emotional harassment to notice, in the past, who lived reinterpretation, emotional wounds the least damage to the improvement and the new 'emotional relationship' negative bias in a way closer to prevent personal resources are inadequate where the individual psychological therapy support can be taken.