Mary
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Some people in my life (close friends and family) know about my Sp but a lot don't know, especially my husbands family..they came for a surprise visit yesterday and I hid in my room.. I didn't see them the whole time they were here (one day) and now that they are gone I just know that they are talking about me and how rude I was to not even say hi or bye to them. I just had one of those days where I just couldn't do it.. They think it is because of my pregnancy and that I was asleep all day that I didn't come out. And it was partly due to that too, I didn't want to deal w/them and get all stressed out trying to make conversation and thought I will just stay in my room and hide! At the time I didn't care what they thought but now I am a little more worried about it. So my question to everyone is this: Is it better just to be completely honest and tell people in your life you have SP?
Or will it even make a difference? I worry that they won't understand me and it won't help the situation at all and they will just think I am nuts..but..now they are thinking I am rude.. :? Nuts or rude? Are those my choices? Has anyone told someone and found it made things better or worse?
Or will it even make a difference? I worry that they won't understand me and it won't help the situation at all and they will just think I am nuts..but..now they are thinking I am rude.. :? Nuts or rude? Are those my choices? Has anyone told someone and found it made things better or worse?