Thanks
That is a new word for me
I was grabbed by the throat (surreally) when I looked at facebook (rarely) by a few photos of a schoolmate who has flourished in life. He became a proper friend and others at the right time as we were about to finish school, and went in very different directions. He's one with a deceased parent, at an acceptable time and age. It happened to me a few years later. Umm.. first, a gone brother, exactly the age of typical parent age, then later my parent.
I did collapse in tears. None of this death means anything at all. It's past.
I get a big lift from tears, staring at myself in the mirror with a strong smile, laughing at myself, dwelling on my history. What I really want do do for any people I know is to reward them by sacrificing myself to leap and push them out of the way of an oncoming bus or train, or tackle any aggression from others. I don't need any reminding that they're all a lot better off with me out of the way. Any last encounters more than a decade ago would have spread my negativity and moaning about myself. I'm doing the right thing to keep away. I'm envious. Tears do dry by themselves. Good day.
The reason of this emotion is purely to see the achievements of this friend which show he's a real person. He was key to my life, but we haven't met since 1994. The very day I left to start a new life was a sad day for us to depart, in our hometown. I had a peak and now I've always been able to cope with my misery. This outrageous burst of tears really knocked me sideways. It's all about the admiration I have for him and others. Praise facebook. People who have friends. I can manage being locked out since December - quite a new event, but I'm ready for loss. That's a strong attribute. The person I mention held an important role in his Dad's company and associates, since we left school. The firm stopped functioning in 2012. He has a lot of friends, dogs, etc... All a person ever needs is good parents. The core of friends at school maintained their family without divorce. It was prominent in '80s and '90s among others at school, and my brother has had for than one divorce.