I'm intimidated by everyone

recluse

recluse

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I'm intimidated by everyone whether they are family, workmates, people in shop qeue's, everyone!

For instance when I am in a car with my workmate whom I share lifts to work with, I am so uneasy and can't think of anything to say and it doesn't help that I don't like him much as he has an arrogant attitude. I hate uncomfortable silences! The thoughts that go through my head when I am in a situation like this is that they probably think I am boring. I think that girls think I am boring o'r creepy because I do not know how to talk to them. I sometimes have a hard time defining when someone is innocently and jokingly teasing me o'r if they are really dissing me. I can't fit into society, I'm a misfit!

Help me! I do not know how to start and maintain conversations.
 
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nesh

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Join the club. I don't know what to say, I feel just as awkward in those situations.
 
recluse

recluse

Well-known member
Yeah it's a nightmare. What really makes me angry is when people ask me ''What's wrong? Why are you quiet?'' as if I have something wrong with me because I am quiet! All my life I have been looked down on because of this.
 
Velvet_J

Velvet_J

Member
recluse said:
I'm intimidated by everyone whether they are family, workmates, people in shop qeue's, everyone!

For instance when I am in a car with my workmate whom I share lifts to work with, I am so uneasy and can't think of anything to say and it doesn't help that I don't like him much as he has an arrogant attitude. I hate uncomfortable silences! The thoughts that go through my head when I am in a situation like this is that they probably think I am boring. I think that girls think I am boring o'r creepy because I do not know how to talk to them. I sometimes have a hard time defining when someone is innocently and jokingly teasing me o'r if they are really dissing me. I can't fit into society, I'm a misfit!

Help me! I do not know how to start and maintain conversations.
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It's better to be a misfit than a bitchy part of society that makes people that way.
 
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