I'm about to go to a nightclub soon...

[BishopTutu]

I'm about to go to a nightclub soon, and I have NEVER been to one in my life. What I wanna know is what should I do; should I just stick with my friends or just go do my own thing? What do you suggest? I hate to seem so neurotic about this, but this is gettin' me scared crapless. It would be mighty cool if you could share your experiences too, if you've overcome this

 

[Emma]

I've never been to a nightclub myself, but I think that....maybe you should stick with your friends then do your own thing later if you are comfortable.....although I myself wouldn't go, I would just daydream about going and being all popular....dream on Emma...tell me what its like there when you do go

 

[recluse]

I've been to one about four times. I find that when I'm drunk I accidently lose my friends but being drunk is the only way I can relax.

 

[rado31]

Nite clubbing sux. If u have bad SA first u oughtta get drunk, then u can eventually end with a total stranger person which is cool if you dont want relationship.

I clubbed the night for 15 years. I like to drink on the streets with buddies when i reveal that i have ones. Clubbin is out.

 

[BishopTutu]

This isn't helping. I don't mean to sound like a butthole, but I'd like it if people replied that have OVERCOME that nightclub fear.

 

[IBM]

everytime i went to a night club but SA took on me. It's so frustrating.

 

[otaku]

I was scared the first time i went to a nightclub. its best if you go with a small group of friends the first couple of times, then when you feel more confident maybe go out with one mate. I know its hard but its one of those things where you just have to tell yourself "i will do this" and then do it.

 

[Joey86]

I hate nightclubs. I've been a few dozen times, only because my friends drag me along. I just get an alcoholic drink from the bar, find a dark corner to sit down, and get pissed slowly...

 

[recluse]

I get myself drunk enough ao that I don't give a shit. Essentialy I am in my own world and then I dance the night away.

 

[jamez]

so...how was it?