I need someone to come with me :(

chin ho

Member
an event is being held in our uni about "student entrepreneurship"..where students from different universities come together, form teams and start a business...it's awful I know but I'm really passionate about this, and I hope to make some friends and maybe even find a business partner.
but I'm terrified of going.... I feel inferior to these people..they're so confident, outspoken, good looking and I'm the exact ****ing opposite :'(
I don't want to be left alone looking like an idiot....

I need to apply by tomorrow morning or it's too late.... How do you guys get the courage to do **** like this?
 

Misterhopefull

Well-known member
Now if you focus on looking like an idiot you will accomplish it for sure!
But You said you like it, so focus on the positive part then, on how much you like it. And that is how people do ************ like this.
 

chin ho

Member
Now if you focus on looking like an idiot you will accomplish it for sure!
But You said you like it, so focus on the positive part then, on how much you like it. And that is how people do ************ like this.

^_^ I wish it was that easy for me....I mean what if like no one wants to talk to me or have me on their team?
 

reslo

Well-known member
i think it's good you know what you're passionate about! social phobia will try to take away the things that make you happy or could better your life. also, too, if no one talked to you or didn't form a group with anyone, that would suck, but i think you would survive! if you don't go you'll probably regret it. there's probably a tiny voice telling you to go and do it, and the rest is saying the oppposite. listen to that little voice- it has a hard time being heard under all the anxious thoughts.

for me it helps to get through stuff if i make a decision and stick to it. like i get really anxious applying for jobs- it helps me to get through it if i repeat to myself "if i do this, it could better my life" or my social phobia won't get any better with me just sitting here or i deserve happiness like anybody else- i have to keep coming back to those thoughts, and keep trying... a lot of times i can't go and do the thing i want to do on the first shot. Like with jobs, sometimes, i can only drive up to places i want to apply, but i lose the nerve to walk in... or times where i have walked in, but lost nerve to ask for an application. or i get too nervous sometimes to even turn in an online application. or i do get the application, but can't face the idea of turning it in. for me, i will eventually get to the point where i will ask for an application and turn it in, but sometimes it takes awhile. but i do have a (parttime) job now, and if i hadn't pushed myself just that extra little bit to go back to a place i had chickened out at, i wouldn't have gotten it.

And if you aren't sure if you're going to go or not (and you may not even really know until right before it starts) maybe at least sign up? that way, if you decide not to go, it won't be because you didn't sign up in time.

you never know, there could be other students looking for a passionate business student like you!
 

shore_of_glass

Well-known member
No shortcuts unfortunately, it just takes raw willpower, which everybody has the potential to harness.

You can do it.


this

sometimes I just feel something in me that shouts "**** it!! I'm gonna do what I want, SA is not the boss of me!!" (very rare)

Then I do stuff, fail and don't care.


But hours later I start to care for those failures and get really depressed lol, so yeah back to starting point
 
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