I just may be insane...

Richey

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All I can say is that at least you can get a laugh out of people, whats your secret? I have something funny in my head and it comes out all wrong and I get those awkward looks. Its one of the reasons I avoid social occasions
 

Septor

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Well thats some thing to be proud that you are funny and entertaining but there's more to interacting with people then being funny and entertaining.Being funny and entertaining is a good ice breaker but you have to accept that people will like you for who you are and not just because your funny and if not then they are not your friend.Sorry I could not be anymore helpfull.
 

maggie

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PartsUnknown said:
I feel that nobody wants my company if I'm not funny or entertaining them at all time. I put this trait on a pedestel above all personality traits. This is driving me nuts. 90% of my energy goes towards focusing on this. Why can't I just accept the fact that I'm just average?Help me out please.
hey PartsUnknown.....sometimes when i'm really stressed....like at work...i find..if i say something silly...and make someone else laugh...the sound of their laughter....relaxes me a little... :)
 

Septor

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PartsUnknown said:
I'm not funny or entertaing anymore though. I just always feel like sleeping and so I try and mask how boring I am when I'm around ppl.
Maybe I have post tramatic stress or something but I always feel pretty numb. ALL my feelings have been dulled and it's frustrating to deal with. I wish I could have my feelings back.

Does anyone else feel this way??????? :cry:


I feel like that a lot of the time to.It really sound like you have depression.Are you getting any kind of professional help for this?Your not insane just feeling what a lot of us feel.
 

jss

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maggie said:
PartsUnknown said:
I feel that nobody wants my company if I'm not funny or entertaining them at all time. I put this trait on a pedestel above all personality traits. This is driving me nuts. 90% of my energy goes towards focusing on this. Why can't I just accept the fact that I'm just average?Help me out please.
hey PartsUnknown.....sometimes when i'm really stressed....like at work...i find..if i say something silly...and make someone else laugh...the sound of their laughter....relaxes me a little... :)

I think it is because one of the most problems we have is that we feel rejected from other people.
so when you say some thing funny and people laugh this remove or decrease the feeling of being rejected
 

Horatio

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PartsUnknown said:
I feel that nobody wants my company if I'm not funny or entertaining them at all time. I put this trait on a pedestel above all personality traits. This is driving me nuts. 90% of my energy goes towards focusing on this. Why can't I just accept the fact that I'm just average?Help me out please.

I can help you...

how about first of all you don't PM people just to critisize them you sick fuck

this is a socialphobia forum, not a forum to have a go at other people in private, if you cant say it in the open then don't go skulking around others backs in private you loser

you Sir are pathetic, I'm sick of jerks like you who only come here to mock people and in your own words "go through the photo album to make fun of people"

we are all trying our best to overcome our weaknesses here and don't need someone like you having a go at us via PM
 

PartsUnknown

Active member
Please do not be so rude.

Plus, you're sick of ppl like me? You have never seen anyone insult people in such a clever fashion as I have, so don't compare me to some dimwits.
 
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Horatio

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PartsUnknown said:
Plus, you're sick of ppl like me? You have never seen anyone insult people in such a clever fashion as I have, so don't compare me to some dimwits.

you rip a guy to peices in PM and then boast about it as if you deserve credit?

give me a fucking break, to come onto a website designed for people with social anxiety to give each support and then use that as a way to try to rip people to shreds is the most pathetic thing I've ever seen

you have me in fucking tears here and your boasting about it

when I finally end it all you better fucking well look behind your back because the spirit world is real and this one just added you to his list you sick fuck
 
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